Megsmum, WTH, and Angel
Thanks so much for your advice/experiences. I know I just have to be patient - but boy it is difficult isn't it? Feel like I am waiting for everything at the moment - wow what a whinger I am - we are all in the same boat I know. It is very nice to hear that my long cycle though is quite normal. I guess I was thrown by the LH surge on day 18.

Mumma & Bubbas - I am soo sorry for your loss, and hope your stay on this thread is very short. Just take one day at a time at the moment, allow yourself to grieve. I had a miscarriage not long ago too and my first question on this post was the same. I had my first AF 2 weeks after D and C so then started trying naturally the next cycle (this month). But cycle is all over the place and extra long - up to day 36 at the moment (no AF) so difficult to work out when and if I ovulated. Once I get AF, then fertility clinic has said I can have my next IVF cycle (so I guess for me it is 2 months after D & C. But I have heard of others falling pregnant the month after miscarrying so probably pretty individual). Not sure that helps sorry

Big hello and best wishes to everyone else - will try to lurk/stalk less and get to know you all a bit better. Crazily busy work life at the moment so don't get an awful lot of time to post but will do what I can.

Me (37) DH (50)
5 september 2008 (6 weeks 4 days)
Waiting for AF to have frostie transfer