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thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage/Loss - October 2009

  1. #109
    Registered User

    Sep 2009
    Melbourne, Victoria
    88

    Murraycod - Good News, Good News...I am so soooo happy hearing this wonderful news. All the best...Hurrayyyyyyyyyyyy...This is so good, i have no words to express my happiness hearing this wondrful msg...Hope everything goes well.
    See the longest cycle is the magical cycle, and has done the magic today

  2. #110
    Registered User

    Jan 2009
    Perth
    276

    good news murraycod hope the tww flies by! and you get the result you want and deserve

    i also took natures own, but used to take extra iron + folate supps as well as my iron was low. gonna go and dig them out again

  3. #111
    Registered User

    Aug 2009
    Murray River Victoria
    649

    Girls, just wondering, can I POAS yet?.................

  4. #112
    Registered User

    Sep 2009
    WA
    508

    TOLD YOU SO ! Murraycod,
    Like I keep saying WE DON@T KNow our bodies they trick us!
    I am so thrilled your eggies turned up enourmous ones too lets hope they both take and you,ll have double trouble (twins) god knows you deserve it !
    I bet your sitting there crossed legged and scared to cough or sneeze incase the little fall out ! I know I would !
    Can't wait for the next 2 wks to fly by and see your BFP and hopefully mine and someone elses too !
    Hi to everyone else I am so excited that this was such a great post for Murraycod and it gives us all HOPE !

  5. #113
    Registered User

    Sep 2009
    WA
    508

    Murraycod

    NO NOT YET !

    just be positive and think happy thoughts and will those sperm to find the eggs,


  6. #114
    BellyBelly Member
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    Sep 2009
    Bunbury WA
    804

    Murraycod- Congrats on your big eggs lol.. im sorry i dont know much about these things but i know enought o be able to tell that this is AWESOME news for you!!! P.s. you can POAS in like 10 - 14 days ROFL

    Everyone else seems to be doing ok! sorry i dont really know anyone yet... hopefully i dont get to know any of you till we get over to the due in groups!!

    AFM after a big long talk DH and i decided tha tthis is what we really want so we are going to start TTC. i did explain to him how hard this is going to be emotionaly for me and he says he understands and he will try and be as supportive as he can.... so i guess that is where you guys come in ROFL
    So how soon can i start?? lol

  7. #115
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    Sep 2009
    WA
    508

    Scarypinkfairy

    So glad your ok and it was over quickly for you I am so glad you went and had the D&C now you have a clean fresh start ! Forget the nurse I started to as soon as my 7 days was up and that was 6 wks ago think my DH is working later and later hopeing Im asleep when he gets in he is Kna####ed and will never pester me again !

    sent to you !

  8. #116
    Registered User

    Dec 2008
    nsw
    718

    hi all,

    Still lurking....
    Murraycod - so excited for you, i couldn't help but smile reading your posts. All me fingers and toes are crossed for you.
    Scarypinkfairy - glad it all went OK hun, a nice new start to get your forever bub!
    hi to everyone else!!
    AFM - CD20 and my stupid body has still not O'd. I thought i did yesterday with a very strong OPK and terrible O pains last night, but no temp rise this morning,...WTF??? Anyway, hoping for a rise tomoro then, my first official cycle back TTC and after 3 perfect 28 day cycles( although O on CD17 and 11 day luteal phase, but that is normal for me), this one has blown out...not happy!!!! The joys of TTC!!

  9. #117

    Apr 2009
    central coast
    2,298

    murrycod-way to go i will have my fingers crossed this whole 2 week's and thank's for the kind word's ,oh and your DH has super sperm to and stay away from those HPTs go get them and put them in a plastic bag put the bag in an ice cream container fill the container up with water and stick it in the freezer so if you get the urge you will think twice about having to hack your way through a block of ice LOL.

    Snugglebean-i will take your advice i rang my mum last night and told her not to ring me when my grrrrrrrrrrrrr! horrible SIL has her baby i will hear about it on the grapevine eventually and my 2 girlfriends i said just txt me the basics boy/girl weight ect no birth labour details and i will contact you when im ready to come visit OH! and green wee WTF!

    Mummyof4-glad you and DH had a talk you can start whenever you feel ready and you body is back to normal let's hope we get our BFPs soon i think it will help with our loss.

    Scarypinkfairy-How are you feeling i hope all is good and the womb renovation is comming along nicely(snugglebeans comment).

    Mathewsmum-twins next door aww that must have been hard.

    Hi sparkles and all the other ladies i have missed i will be back for more later have to take my ferrals to school.

  10. #118
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    Jun 2009
    Brisbane
    132

    hey ferrals4

    glad you took snugglebean's advice. i was lurking and reading what she said yesterday and forgot to post saying i agree. you have done the right thing and they really should be more mindful of your situation. i think of you more and more now that i'm approaching 19 weeks and can't imagine what you have gone through. you are amazing and i keep coming in here to check on your journey. november is getting close and i have everything possible crossed for you! i had my amnio on thursday and all is ok for now. you take care and i can't wait for your bfp!!!! take care.

    big hi to sunbeam, coco, sunny, sammy,snugglebean. maddison, eliselouise and everyone else. i am always lurking and sending you all postivie ttc vibes. looking forward to seeing some bfp's!!!!

  11. #119
    Registered User

    Sep 2009
    866

    Afternoon all,Murraycod-hate to say this but yes to early to test,more waiting but i have feeling it will all be worth the wait your timing was so good &with such good sperm...Mummy of4-I started ttc as soon as bleeding had stopped,i had this fanatasy in my head i'd be pregnant without having 1st af after loss...Sparkles-It's frustrating business this ttc,our bodies don't play nice sometimes...Ferrals-It is hard with babies being around i hear them cry ,see her light on for mid-night feeds,think i should be up doing that,you know how the rest goes...afm-i took 'o'test this morning and it was positive so dh here i come...Craftymummy-have those tests arrived yet ,i got mine from coles $2o for 5

  12. #120
    Registered User

    Sep 2009
    WA
    508

    Hi Ladies

    Murraycod has it sunk in yet the events of yesterday ? what a day you had one to remember for sure, still got those legs crossed and no sneezing
    Matthewsmum thanks for asking about me NO those damn sticks didn't arrive as yet !


    I been feeling a bit strange the last few days and I think my body is playing tricks with me again so I am trying really hard to egnore it and get on with life but heres a thing,
    had my D&C 7wks ago today and only bled for 3 days then nothing, started BBdancing since then and not really had an AF well some brown yucky thick stuff around 2wks ago but not really an AF now I am having tingly boobs and feeling so hungry/sickly but am convinced its my nerves or imagination ! so what to do, also still having browny discharge when I wipe but found out I have a polyp on my cervix just a small one that could be the reason for discharge, they told me when I had a speculum exam before they discovered my missed MC,
    So what to do wait another 2 wks and see what happens if AF turns up or not or go to GP now and tell him my story of no proper AF for 7wks now or do I just POAS
    WHAT WOULD YOU DO ?

  13. #121
    Registered User

    Sep 2009
    866

    craftymummy-i would poas,i was told you can drop an egg 2 weeks after loss,poas,good luck...

  14. #122

    Apr 2009
    central coast
    2,298

    Hey Zstar thanks for keeping an eye on me i am doing ok i havn't thrown in the towel yet i am happy that your amnio was all clear it is a scarey wait for the result's i had a CVS and amnio both my results came back all clear because SLO is a genetic fault it diddn't show up now they now what to look for it would any way your comming up to 19 weeks wow how time fly's i remember what 19 weeks feels like i had a little belly and could feel her move quite a bit i had her to 19 weeks 5 days so halfway through a pregnancy not nearly long enough.

    November is not to far away but i'm not real optimistic something is going on in my body my FS said my day 1 BT showed i was fertile and would ovulate early but today is day 12 and my opks are still neg and i havn't felt myself ovulate yet so much for being early i don't know what is going on this has never happened i always feel myself ovulate between day 11 and 14 and my opk's always show a really strong line from day 10 so i think i will miss out on November i am gearing myself up for a sorry you can't start your ivf cycle from the pgd nurse that way i wont fall to pieces when it doe's happen.

    Mathewsmum-i went to lunch today with my best friend who is now over due we went and had a sticky beak at baby clothes and baby bits and bobs and it was hard at times i thought i would love to buy that for abbi she would be 8 weeks old now there was beautiful girls clothes i don't know why i put myself through it maybe i was trying to prove to myself that i can be strong and look at that stuff and be ok with it truth is i wanted to throw a spaz yell and demand to someone to give me my girl back it sux and i hate it so i just said isnt it cute and kept walking it is hard isnt it.

    Craftmummy-cant hurt to check.

  15. #123
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    Aug 2009
    Utah, USA
    37

    Wow, I get busy for a couple of weeks and I have 7 pages to catch up on here... I made a few notes for personals, sorry if I miss anyone.

    craftymummy--you were asking about OPKs and pricing. Here in the US, I get the Answer brand 20-pack. They're tiny little sticks, and the instructions say don't try to use them past 30 days from opening the tube, but I haven't had any problems with them "going bad." I just make sure the tube is sealed airtight after I pull out the little stick, and thus I'm set for up to 3-4 months. (My cycle is regular enough that I only have to test from about day 13 to 16.) I don't know if that brand is available in Australia, but it's worked for me. I've gotten positive O results from them before.

    loopielouie, I'm sorry it's a reminder when people nearby are pregnant. Hang in there.

    Loubee, emmas_mum, mummyof4, emmy83, welcome to the group. I'm sorry for the losses that brought you here, hopefully you can find good support from everyone.

    ferrals, sorry about the difficulties with IVF this month, I hope things look up soon.

    murraycod, congrats on IUI going well! Hang in there during the TWW, it seems to go forever.

    coco, I'm sorry for your pain as the due date came and went. I'm not looking forward to that day for myself, hopefully I'm pregnant by then and it'll go a little easier that way.

    AFM, I saw my OB a week ago for the annual checkup. He says if I'm not pregnant by January he wants me to go to an infertility specialist. (It took 18 months to conceive before the lost pregnancy, and I'm not getting any younger.) As soon as I get a BFP, I'm supposed to call him and he'll put me on progresterone and a low dose aspirin regimen to help avoid problems this next time around. It looks like he'll take my concerns for problems seriously and do what's necessary to get a good outcome. My blood pressure has been higher than it should, so I'm seeing a family practice doctor on Monday to address that issue.

    I hope all is well for everyone trying this month, it'd be nice to see some BFPs.

  16. #124
    Registered User

    Jun 2009
    Camperdown
    421

    Evening ladies, hope everyones week is going well. Still not really any time for full persies tonight but ill try and get onto it real soon
    Murraycod that is great news about the IUI, good luck and hopefully you'll be posting a BFP in roughly 2 weeks
    Craftmummy, if that was me i would definately POAS. Like ferals said it cant hurt, that you'll be posting a BPF soon too.
    Hello to everyone else, is anyone in the 2ww? Good luck to those who are testing shortly
    AFM I suppose im just waiting for AF to show up as im pretty certain i missed BDing at O time this month. When i got home we definately made up for having seen each other for 3 weeks but unfortunately i think it was 3 or 4 days to late bugger. So anyway i think AF will be here in the next couple of days and then looking forward to starting to TTC again next month.
    Talk soon ladies

  17. #125
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    Aug 2008
    Ouiinslano
    5,303

    I'm having a "can't handle it" day.... must be Thursday the hardest day of my week. Always has been, don't know why.
    Nothing else to report. SVN slow news day here...

    Someone get a BFP and perk me up!

  18. #126
    Registered User

    Sep 2009
    South Coast NSW
    25

    How exciting Murraycod!!! Be patient, the time will fly quicly!!

    Snugglybean.... Thursdays are always hard for me too.... it drags cause the weekend is not too far away. SVN is a bit slack, better sack the owner!! Hehehe

    Eliselouise.... alway seems to happen when your away. We went camping when I was due to O and it is very hard when the camper trailer guy ropes move with every movement!! Luckily for us the wind came up and they were moving on their own anyway!

    Crafty Mummy.... I would POAS, it would put your mind at ease either way.

    And I'm curious... the scan to see what your eggs are doing, the clouding over when your about to O (like what murraycod was talking about), is that by ultrasound or internal scanning? I think its amazing that they can tell you all this stuff!

    AFM... nothing to report really. Going to FS on Tuesday to see if I O, dont think I did. Might have a look into the Vitex stuff, can you buy it at chemists or health food shops? I really think I'm out of whack, with my long cycles and all.

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