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thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage/Loss - September 2009

  1. #91
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    Apr 2007
    Melbourne
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    Hannah - I cried for you this morning. You are right, it is so unfair to have to suffer yet another loss. I hope you have lots of people around you for support.

  2. #92
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    Aug 2008
    Ouiinslano
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    Oh Hannah. Big hugs for you. I hope you get it sorted out.

  3. #93
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    May 2009
    Boondocks Qld
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    Hannah - my heart broke reading your post about your baby...I honestly know where you are coming from and some of the feelings you are going through. DB and I have lost 5 angels and are praying for a sticky bundle. Please feel free to pm me if you have any questions I might be able to help with

    MurrayCod: thanks for checking in so far everything seems to be ok. hcg levels were high last week and we did find a HB (107.39bpm). Looks like i have swallowed a diamond ring lol. Today is the same gestation my last angel passed so its stressful. I have an u/s tomorrow and DB can't make it so I will be alone

    Coco: I have everything crossed for you that this is your month (even my legs since that doesn't matter anymore ) & congrats on finding your brother!

    Twinsister: good luck with testing - Your so strong to hold out - I never could

    Ferrals: I can't wait to see your BFP announcement! it only takes the one cycle for you

    Flowerchild, snugglybean, strangelk, Eliselouise, Bonelige and everyone else - hope you are as ok as you can be on this journey and that soon your end comes with a bfp and a h&h 9mths with a perfect bundle to take home.

    Take care all - I couldn't have survived my journey without you

  4. #94
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    Feb 2009
    In the poor house...
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    Hannah - I am so so sorry for your loss

    Please take all the time you need but we are all here for you if you need us !

    I really hope the specialist is able to give you some answers to help you get your sticky bub.

    Take care

    xoxo

  5. #95
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    Aug 2007
    Werribee
    151

    Hannah,not many words can sooth the pain you are enduring once again but please know we are all deeply sorry for your loss and u r in our every thought xoxo

  6. #96
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    Jun 2009
    Camperdown
    421

    Hannah you are in my thoughts hunny, its definately not fair at all and shouldnt happen to such lovely people, hope you have plenty of support around you at the moment

  7. #97
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    Sep 2009
    6

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    Hannah - I am so sorry to hear about your loss! Hugs to you from me!!



    AFM: I am two days away from testing, I have no signs so I don't think this will be the month for me! Who knows I might be surprised though!

  8. #98
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    Aug 2006
    Terrace BC, Canada
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    Hannah - I'm sooooo sorry to hear you are going through this again. I really hope with your doctors help you guys can sort out what's happening. Hang in there though, it WILL happen for you though I know it is really hard to believe that right now. Hope you're doing ok.

    Hearts - I'm only 2 days away from testing too. I don't think it's my month either but I'm keeping my fingers crossed for both of us. I will be thinking of you as I POAS.

    Tina - I have never been able to hold out with POAS before but this month I am making myself for 2 reasons: 1) to prove to myself i do have some willpower in there somewhere 2) I really hate wasting HPTs and I know any earlier than Friday is just a waste of a stick as it is just too early. Also if I test early and get a negative I'll still be obsessing until I get AF or a BFP a few days later so I'm just going to have to wait.

  9. #99
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    Jul 2009
    2,109

    Morning all

    Just a quick one as I am about to head to the office.....

    Hearts and Twin Sister - I am testing on Sunday so soonish as well. Not feeling very positive but I guess my chance is as good as any. Good luck girls

    Hi to everyone else

  10. #100
    Registered User

    Sep 2009
    29

    so sorry for you hannah. pray they find an answer for this happening.

  11. #101
    Registered User

    Apr 2007
    Melbourne
    423

    No need to wait till Saturday to test. AF started this morning. Looks like this dream is slipping out of my hands.

  12. #102
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    Jun 2008
    Cardiff Heights
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    Twin Sister when r u due for AF? I am due on sunday and I tested this morning with a bfn...I dont know why I do it..I think Im certain it would show up by now if it were a bfp?

    Starangelk: Your chart is looking Faboosh!!

    I just said this in the other thread but, my proverbial rubber band of positiveness can only stretch so far and it is about to snap me in the face...

    Why are we having so much trouble even falling pregnant?!!

    Hannah: Hope you're ok hon xxxx

    Sammy, as above...I havent gotten AF but Im sure she will come..Im just getting to that point where Im just not even positive when I say I am...it's so difficult!! I too feel the dream is slipping out of my hands


    I really thought we would be pregnant again by our due date...really.. It's only 3.5 weeks away and Im feeling desperate for a miracle

  13. #103
    Registered User

    Apr 2007
    Melbourne
    423

    MIL just emailed and said she could get a really cheap flight for 7th April to come out and visit. The last baby would have been due 11th April and we thought we would ask if she wanted to be here. I didn't reply to the email, I wanted to have a little cry first.

  14. #104
    Registered User

    Sep 2009
    866

    first post

    Hi,this is my first post but I have been reading for a while as I lost my baby last November at 14 weeks ,we named him Matthew Thomas ,he was measuring 11 weeks 3 days. I'm on my 4th cycle of clomid,bd stage so here's hoping.My last af was more normal so I think that is positive. I'm sorry for everybodies losses and heartbreak.

  15. #105
    Registered User

    Jun 2009
    Brisbane
    132

    hannah - i am so sorry to hear of your loss. my thoughts are with you. stay around loved ones and take care of yourself. i hope you get some answers soon.

  16. #106
    Registered User

    Aug 2009
    Murray River Victoria
    649

    Hearts, TwinSis and Starangel best of luck for testing in the next few days, who can hold out the longest POAS!
    I know I would cave!

    Coco I hope it is just too early to test babesX Sorry to hear your EDD it around the corner, mine is next month too, it's like I'm racing myself to get that BFP before the date so I'm not as much of a mess...........or see a brighter light anyway.

    SammyP so sorry to hear that AF showed up thismorning I hope that your BFP is just around the bend for you X Nice that you have MIL supporting you X

    Matthew'sMum welcome to BB, sorry for your loss, RIP Little Angel Matthew Thomas, what a lovely name you chose for him.
    Hope that you have some good news with the Clomid, I personally have not used it but I'm sure some of the girls here have.
    Anyways I'm sure you will get plenty of support from the girls here, and I hope that your stay with us is a short and successfull one X
    OH! Buy the way stop reading and go BD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    AFM 3DPIUI and has been the longest 3 days ever. I'm still a little crampy now and then, more just like a little twinge to remind me how slow the day is going. Back at work today.
    Tomorrow I have Inj of Pregnyl 1500iu to support hormones and endometrium if there is any baby cells happening, and another on Monday which will be 1week PIUI. That mwill be my last inj for the cycle yipee!!!!!
    Last edited by murraycod; September 17th, 2009 at 05:28 PM. : braindead today,cant spell!

  17. #107
    Registered User

    Sep 2009
    WA
    508

    Hi there been reading all these posts from women in the same boat its amazing you think it only happens to you when the Dr says Im sorry your baby didn't grow after the 9th week of pregnancy youv'e had a silent misscarriage. Happened to me sept 2nd this year came back after a 10 day trip to the UK to see my son get married and thought I was 12 weeks pregnant and looking forward to making plans and having my 1st scan and after the scan those are the words I heard my DR say !

    Had a D & C but can't wait the next month to have a period so have been trying to conceive since the bleeding stopped over a week ago ! anyone else decided they needed to try as soon as they can to get this empty feeling gone and another little person start to grow ! Im 44 am I too old for this now? anyone else my age out there trying to get pregnant after miscarriage ?

  18. #108
    Registered User

    Sep 2009
    866

    hi all,Murraycod--Thanks for the welcome,hope this is the cycle for you. Craftymummy --Sorry for your loss.I don't have age on my side either,my ob told me if I was going to try again do it sooner than later,still trying.I also had the huge desire ttc straght away,I think we need to try to get something back after we have lost so much.Hope your utd soon.

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