hello

welcome scarypinkfairy and alx. you are in the right place. the girls here are a god send and their support will help you in a way you didn't think possible. i am so sorry to hear of your loss.

scarypinkfairy - i just had my 12 wk scan and it was my biggest fear to turn up and find something wrong. i can't imagine how you must feel. i hope you can find good support and allow yourself time to grieve.

alx - i miscarried around the same time as you. i didn't have to have a d&c and the ob said i could start straight away. you need to start when you are ready. a m/c is such a shock. you will find so much support here.

a big hi to everyone else. i continue lurking and checking on you all.

afm - i have had a dodgy nuchal trans 12 wk scan so we have booked in for amnio for middle of october. i'm still in 2 minds about it all. far out, some of us have to fight a lot harder to get our end prize. its not fair. i am grateful to be pg, don't get me wrong. i treasure that everyday. apart from that huge worry i am feeling good.

stay strong girls. you have more strength than you know and your can't put a price on your support.