Boble - Sorry, we must have posted at the same time. Sorry to hear you have had a bad day and are going through the stress of a tribunal. Even worse it is from someone who used to be your friend!I had to go through a similar thing with my ex many years ago to divide our assets etc, it was so stressful and I hope it is over for you soon (and it goes in your favour). You don't need this on top of everything else

Hannah - I second what Cherished said. Dont feel you have to watch what you say on here, we have seen what you have been through to get to this point and couldn't be happier for you and your DH I can understand how your DH feels about not wanting to tell anyone. I think my DH will be just as cautious. Just enjoy the time together with just the 2 of you knowing, it's such a special and exciting secret to keep.