thanks everyone.
i'm still unsure what to do, and am maybe thinking to give it the week to see if my body will go through the process (although that does scare me a bit at the same time) and go ahead with the d&c next week.
That's what i feel this minute anyways, it will change in another two minutes i'm sure.
dh is also interstate for work at the moment so not sure i want to go through through the d&c on my own (although mum is around)
why can't i make this decision?!?!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!?!?!??!?!