Sez, it is a long road, and its not something you really 'get over' you just learnt to live with it over time. Its good that work has given you some time off, so you can have 'you' time and rest up, your body too needs time to recover. I find all the women here really inspiring and Im so glad that I have them to come to in my times of sadness and happiness too. It brings a sense of comfort knowing that we all understand each other, as that is often hard to find in our normal lives. Take care of yourself sweety, and just know that its ok to be sad and its ok to feel good and positive about ttc again.

Belle - still spotting after 30 days! Have you talked to your gp or you going to just ride it out and hope its clears up itself soon? I think you are such a strong and positive woman and you really are a treasure to have around (although I would have preferred to meet you in the pg threads IYKWIM?) Your dh sounds soo sweet and date night sounds like fun, me and dh do that occasionally and its a nice change from day to day life.

Keen - thanks hun, and even if im not pg its good to feel a little hope every know and then. When are you due for testing? If you do get a bfp, im going to throw the biggest party this thread has ever seen! Im praying with all my heart that you a growing a little one in there.

Jayne - PMSL at pinching your nipples!! I think Im going to be exactly the same as you, and its so wonderful that you have made that first step in buying something for your little one. Ive never bought anything even when I was pg - so I cant wait for that!

Oh I forgot to tell you gals....I had a coffee reading by this little old lady the other day...within two seconds she looked at me and said 'your going to have a baby', 'the stork is here, you cant escape it..it will happen within 3 months'... although it was great to hear, im a little sceptical though , but I hope she was right,a nd one of my friends called me the other day asking if I had any 'news' for her, when I asked why she would ask that, she said she'd had a dream about me and had the feeling that I was pg. A little bit freaky I think but again, not something to pin your hopes on.

The thread has been quiet these two days..I hope everyone is undertaknig some serious baby making or getting bfp's that they are too busy to come and play!