Hi Megan,

Hope you're feeling ok today! I just wanted to say that I would wait for one 'normal' cycle before starting again. I feel you really need to make sure you're body's cleaned itself out correctly. I guess when I was in that situation, I kept thinking that if we did fall again before one normal cycle and then lost the baby again, I'd blame myself for not waiting longer (although I'm sure it would be nothing to do with that - it's just what my brain would make of the situation).

I really think you're better of just taking the time to deal with your loss and come to terms with everything. It's such a difficult time and I know just when I thought I'd dealt with it all, I'd break down again. It should only be another couple of weeks at the worst, then you'll really be able to keep track of where you're at!

Just my thoughts though - you should know what's right for you!! Good luck. Oh and as for the shorthand - I think there's a listing of it all in the main Belly Belly Forum, with all the introduction information etc - so have a search around there.

Kelly xx