Welcome gypsy! I hope your stay here is short and full of good support. Give yourself a bit more time, I don't think the cycle seems to get straight back to normal, it might be a while for this one - do you know if/when you've O'd yet?

I remember feeling guilty telling one of my friends I was utd, she's lost 3 ectopic babies (1 before her DS, two since) and was struggling with finding out another one of our friends was pg (via facebook of all things - I mean don't you TELL your close friends?), and now she's 9 weeks pg - found out she was pg just after we lost the baby, so she felt guilty too. I think we just all have to stay happy for each other and know it will happen for us all in time.

Anyway... Shan - did you get to the GP yet? Any AF?
Matthew's Mum - I hope your hormones get themselves together so your FET goes absolutely perfectly.
Mummytotwo - the timing for you and your bestie could have been better hey? At least you can have a beautiful baby snuggle - I love a baby snuggle when I'm feeling empty of baby.

Spreading lots of and