Smilanatu - you sure don't need enemies do you. You'd think that someone who has had a m/c would understand where you come from. I guess not everyone is as thoughtful and sensitive as us (that's what makes us great people). I believe everyone has the right to grieve in their own way, but they shouldn't push that way onto others. Maybe this is her way of coping with her m/c. I would send her Angel's website and make sure her poems are in her face. Maybe it will give her a reality check.
AFM - waiting, waiting, I've ran out of tests so have to wait to POAS. (just adding to the suspense). Temps look good, but don't know, have no symptoms, so not holding my breath.
Krystie - LOL about DH. Better be careful, he may be right he'll get all the symptoms, watch out everyone. You know how men are if they get sick. Love your new name. Do you often work long shifts, you may need to cut that out if DH is UTD.
smilanatu- what sort of friend does that? i still can't believe it and it makes me so angry, can only imagine how hurt you are. i have been dealing with some insensitve people lately too, i had a big cry and got it all out but now i have had to put up my little armour and shut those people out. i have to do it to protect myself. i know if i need to talk i have dh or i have you ladies, and that's all i need. anyone who is going to make me feel bad is not worth the time and effort. i'm not saying you should shut your best friend out completely but maybe don't look to her for your much needed support at this time. remember we are always here for you and we always understand the pain
smilinatu: oh sweetheart, that made me soo angryi cant believe a fiend would be soo insensitive, especially given that she should know better having experienced it herself. So so sorry...
jen: really, your first attempt? that was beautiful! it was really sweet that we here were your inspiration...you brought tears to my eyes, thank you
molly: your chart is looking good hon
krystie: oooh, your chart is looking fab too! good luck with testing today...im sooooo hoping for you to get a BFP!
Im going to test on Saturday i think....i just had a look at last months chart, my temp took a big dive on day 28...today is day 28 and its still up!!! woo hoo!!! no other symptoms yet though...however last time i felt pg i didnt get symptoms till a week after AF was due...
so, girls, im asking all of you to say a big prayer for me today...Please????
Smilantu - I am sure your friend mean't well (much like slapping someone to check they are not unconscious - hmmmmmmmm). But you don't need a slap. You need love and understanding. I cannot believe the lack of empathy. But you have it here, hon'
Mollycat - Wow your chart looks great this month. Day 5dpo looks so much like an implantation dip. Coverlines can be out by one day either side. That would give you a dip at 6dpo which is right on track. WOW!
KrystieLove - I continue to watch you chart with great enthusiasm. I don't want to jinx you, but if DH is getting sympathy symptoms I reckon your next, sista!
Jen - your poem rocked! I think it should be posted on the M&L homepage!
Angelbabies - you are the sweetest thing. I balled again reading those beautiful words. Your bracelets are a beautiful idea. Not advertising your story to the world - simply a loving reminder for a woman who has had to wear "those shoes".
AFM - I am doing better this morning. Actually slept last night. Have been stressing because DH is going abroad for work for a week, in a week, and I am afraid to be without him during these early risky weeks. I just can't face the possibility of going into hospital again for the third time in a year without him at my side. This morning we came to a compromise (he will take off some time before and after). At least this will keep me calmer until he goes. Am I selfish?
to everyone here for the continued support over the past few days. Looking forward to seeing some BFP's very soon!
Last edited by Where there's hope; July 10th, 2008 at 09:38 AM.
it's great!
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i cant believe a fiend would be soo insensitive, especially given that she should know better having experienced it herself. So so sorry...
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