Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ July 08 #4

[mollycat]

pbstar - me too. I feel like i've been cheated on my morning story LOL.

[Toccara50]

WTH~ I'm so hard that everything will be OK for you !!!

Joey~ I hope everything is OK with you too ...

Smilanatu~ Hope you headache is better I hate having headache's it is so hard to get anything done when you have a really bad on feel better

Jen~ OK your thermometer is going nuts lol ... and don't worry to much about FF just relax AF is banned so she wont be showing up !!!

AngelBabies~ TCOYF so very interesting I might look on ebay to see if I can find it on there ... AF is banned from everyone in this thread

Tutmae~ you got the egg this time esp since DH performed even with the flu ...

Pbstar~ Sorry about SIL she will get over it ...

Megsmum~ Hope you got the egg this time around too ...

Jenushka~ 9 weeks already !!! YAY

Easha~ Good luck tomorrow I'm hoping you get that BFP ...

Tina~ Good luck with you BT results on Friday ...

Mollycat~ Good luck with your modules sweetie don't stress about it everything will work out !!!

KrystieLove~ where are you girlie ... hope you feeling better and AF is gone time to

As for me I'm feeling really good right now I'm starting a diploma program on the 28th for medical assistant its only for 9months DH said maybe I will spend those 9months pg !!! lol, I have been applying for a new job just about everyday so I'm positive somebody will call me soon, According to FF I be O'ing next week so I'm start on Tuesday or Wednesday that's it for now it's so hot out today I'm about to go and find a way to keep cool...

Oh I went to the chat room and no one was there I try again tomorrow ...

[mollycat]

Joey -- to you. Hope everything is still going ok for you and little Aussie was just settling in. Hope you have a great day.

[Easha]

Hi All,

Again dont have much time this morning but will read through tonight for personals.

I actually tested last night and it was a I am not that concerned yet cause FF is of the opinion I was only 9 DPO so I suspect the HCG would not have been high enough.

Even better is that AF has not arrived (the curse still stands AF!!), it usually would have arrived last night.

I am checking like mad every few hours to see if any change and completely overanalysing each and every little twinge but cant help myself.

The temp also increased again today

Wait, wait, wait - please send me all you baby dust vibes

I will speak wtih you all tonight

[plc1805]

the lurker here also feels cheated out of the late night/early morning chat

big hugs everyone - hugs of encouragement and hugs in commiseration!

[Baby Angels]

ohhhhhh.... gee dont I feel bad.... lay on the guilt ladies... its alright...noones feelings are involved here ......

It doesnt have to be a late night chatter room.... its open 24/7 ... it has all sorts of bits and pieces in it including noises....LOL We were all like kids in a candy shop trying out all the bits and pieces.... I cant even really give a blow by blow description of what we discussed because it was all random conversations.... goodness now I m explaining myself... I feel like a kid who has been caught with her hand in the lolly jar.

Anyway... all of you are welcome to join at any time.... Please dont have a terrible day because of us

[Toccara50]

Oh wow Joey I almost forgot ...

[Where there's hope]

Joey - I have read a little light pink or brown spotting near the time of AF can be an implantation bleed. Don't give up,hon!

Everyone - you have been so kind to me. I can't believe you are still sending me little posts and putting me in your prayers. Just popping in to let you know I am still getting by. I am trying to be constructive. DH and I are speaking to a counciller on Friday. We have been putting it off but realise it is time we used what is out there to help us get through. I have also made an appointment with a Dr Sacks for 3 weeks time. Apparently if there is anything to find, he will find it. And he will not make me wait for two periods like my OB to start testing. DH and I have also decided we need a holiday. We will be going somewhere far up north where there is beauty, sun & sand and make some happy times with DD. She, by the way, is doing quite well. I always perform retail therapy on her through the tough times!

Sorry I have not done personals. I just want you to know we are getting by. Will let you know how my US, BT and OB appointments go next Monday.

WTH xx

[mollycat]

Angel Babies - It's okay we still love you - just don't forget with your midnight chatter when the rest of us are getting our beauty sleep to leave us some tidbits to read the next morning. It's the best part of the day - waking up and finding out what everyone else is up to.

Easha just for you

[jen805]

pbstar, mollycat, and plc--Awww, I'm feeling a little guilty... It never occurred to me that everyone enjoyed our back-and-forth banter in the mornings! I can totally understand, though... Especially being way out here in CA all by my lonesome, if I logged on in the mornings and couldn't read posts because everyone was in a chat room, that would SUCK! It really is so cool, though, it makes little "ploop" sounds, and even does an evil laugh! whooooahhhhaahhaa... it sounds much better in the chat room! Hey, Angel and tutmae, maybe we'll have to get some sort of visitation worked out for the girls--half our time on the thread, and the other half in the chat room! *moo*


Toccara--The med. assisting program sounds great! I actually did a medical front office program that also lasted 9 mo's. I really enjoyed it, and was even on the Dean's list with a 4.0 the whole time! I barely passed high school, so I was determined to do well at the business college--especially when I was paying the tab!! Now I'm a SAHM and am still paying that tab! lol...Hey, you're another US gal--so you're pretty much on my time frame--give or take... I usually log on between 6-6:30, usually Angel and tutmae are the only ones awake over there, and smilanatu is a US gal, so she pops in every morning. She even found us in the chat room! Anyhow, you're more than welcome to join us in the mornings!

Oh, and thanks, Toccara, I've decided FF doesn't know what she's talking about anyway, so I'm not concerned! I think she was right the first time--that I O'ed on CD14 instead of CD16. Besides, my other chart didn't change at all, and still gives me a high conception chance--so I'm going with that one!


Easha--Sorry about your BFN, but remember FF doesn't know what she's talking about this month--probably just too early still. If your cycles are usually spot-on, then it's a very promising sign that she hasn't showed yet! And the temp looked great this morning! I'm like mad for your BFP!! Here's your


joey-- I'm waiting in anticipation to hear your BT and appt. results! I'm praying like crazy!!!

[jen805]

WTH--You seem surprised, of course we're still thinking of you and rooting for you!! Glad to hear you're getting by.... sending lots more and, of course, some Hope you get some miraculous news at your appt. on Monday. I'm the u/s and BT's go well! The beauty, sun, and sand sounds just like what the dr. ordered! I hope you enjoy, and continue spoiling that DD of yours! Retail therapy is the best! I'm really sorry you're going through all this right now...hang in there, hun!

[Baby Angels]

Hey, Angel and tutmae, maybe we'll have to get some sort of visitation worked out for the girls--half our time on the thread, and the other half in the chat room! *moo*

[joey123]

Thanks so much girlie wirlies for the wishes. Just a quick on cause I'm in class. Will do persies later.

My kids all sang to me at 10.07am - the time I was born. They are the best!!

I figure I'm still UTD, cause my brain is fried!! Turned up to the Dr this morning and my appt is TOMORROW!!

So left a message for him to call me with the results anyway. He's not in till 4pm, so I'll post when I get the phone call and let you all know.

Still spotting a little, but it is still brown, not red, so thinking positive.

I also feel really puffy down there in my lower abdomen. Is this good???

Thanks for all the support

[tina_k]

good morning all.

firstly: joey: happy birthday sweetheart. Praying so hard that you get a wonderful birthday present that you deserve and long for so much
oh, im sorry, i didnt mean to make you cry, i just really thought your bubba needed to be told to stay strong and heathy for you!

wth: does your little one need a talking to as well? please stay stong for your mummy and daddy little one, they love you very much and cant wait to see you.
praying all goes well for you on Monday. look after yourself, DD, and DH this weekend.

easha: looks like you just tested too early...look forward to seeeing your BFP in a few days!

[jen805]

Angel-- *evil*


joey--Yay for momnesia! But that SUCKS that your appt. isn't until tomorrow!! Ok, I'll have to keep my mind occupied until your Dr. calls with your results... Oh damn, that means I won't find out until tomorrow morning what your results are! Life's so unfair... What a sweet class! How did they know what time you were born? Oh, and puffy is great! Is it like a gassy/bloated feeling? I had that last time (but never had it with either of my boys), and have read that's a very positive pg'cy sign!! Sweeeet!!


Good morning tina!!! How are you feeling mama?

[joey123]

Jen

I told them this morning what time I was born. They all wanted to sing at 9am and I said they would have to wait till 10.07am. I had my alarm set, and I said, "ok you can all sing to me now, it's 10.07"!!

It's puffy, yeah a bit bloated, but it's really low down, not in my tummy. Is that still good? I'm hoping it's not a pooling of blood ready to escape. I'm walking around really slowly, and holding my tummy!!

Send me your phone number and I'll text you (in your middle of the night) when he calls me if you like!!!

Thanks chicky

[tina_k]

joey we must have posted t the same time!
thats really sweet of your kids to do that.

as for the puffiness: Im really really puffy in my belly too...feel really gassy and bloated...look like in 4 months pg already! struggling with doing up my jeans!

hi Jen! im feeling great! cannot wait for my BT tomorrow!
thanks for thinking of me...

[joey123]

AF has arrived