Hi Tanya - sorry your feeling a bit down - I was like that for a few days, starting to feel better now though. Yes at 29 the dr's think oh your sooo young and have plenty of time, but the yearning for a child is not dependent on your age, its about how you feel inside, and I want a baby so badly, Im 28, so does that mean I should go away until Im 40 and then they will help me? Whether your 19, 29 or 39 the yearning for a child is the same, if its in you its in you and thats it. My dr said something similar to me after the ectopic, and it was like HELLO?? I want a baby now, not in 10 years time, I feel I am ready now - obvsioulsy my body isnt aligned with my brain - LOL!! So I totally understand where you are coming from. You just keep on bd'ing my dear, and you will get that bfp! How are your little princesses?

Michelle - aww shift work - joys of being in your proffession, but I do admire you lot heaps who else will look after us simpletons?? As for your friends, some people think that once you have had a loss that you never want to be around pg people again - but they dont realise that sort of approach is isolating and only highlights your loss further. Maybe you should initiate a dinner date with this couple? Sometimes being around babies and pg woman can be theraputic and give some hope. Chin up missy, you will be with a baby in your belly soon. I can feel it in my bones.

And LOL at being able to bd when you feel like it - Ive forgotten what that feels like! My DH is so funny - he gets all excited and procliams ' lets make babies' and he doesnt want to bd unless Im obulating! (ive taught him that its with a v not a b! ),

Amy - send my love to Naomi, I hope it all settles down soon and she can ttc before the end of the year!

Big hi's to everyone else,
Lisa