Kirsty, You know i am always here day or night for you it doesnt matter....How are you doing today?
Cass, Really glad that you have found us, its a very hard road for all of us even though we may travel different paths the pain from losing a baby and the longing to feel the joy of pregnancy (again) we all understand...keep coming around we are all here for each other.
Jayne, I am really sorry that you have had this scare...but really glad that you got to see your little bub and that flickering heartbeat. i wish i could take some of the worry away from you but i am here listening and thinking of you and your precious bub.
Lisa, How are you doing girl? Thats great about your friends pregnancy but very difficult for you at the moment. This weeks of all weeks....That is really really nice what you and your DH are doing to remember your baby.
I might not have made myself clear in my last post.....DH doesnt want to "try" (he wants it to happen but doesnt want to know when i am ovulating or when AF is due, how many days until we can test etc etc he just wants it to happen without all that stress each day and the whole TWW etc etc) but that doesnt mean i dont have to try....he just doesnt need to know when it is the right time for me to be trying IYKWIM. He really wants to be pregnant again but because we tried so hard with Katelyn and Lucy (every night for a month lol) he wants to enjoy trying this time without the pressure - does this make sense??? He wants to get prego but wants it to be an accident lol how does he work that out you either use contraception or you dont! He was ready for another baby after Lucy before i was and now i am ready I AM READY lol...i guess truth be told i let slip around the right time last month but i dont think that there is anything positive for us this month i can feel AF coming!!!!!!! He is excited about getting a BFP but also worried for our friends who have been trying to concieve their first baby for over a year and he doesnt want to say to them that we are pregnant again before they are which is sweet (and i feel the same) but i have reminded him that there is only 24 hours in the month to get pregnant and the chances of us catching that with the trying but not really trying approach is probably not going to work quickly lol. Basically he knows that we are trying but we are trying without pressure - so far will see what happens in a few months if we havent jagged a BFP...lol then we will be really trying.
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