Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ June 08

[smilanatu]

A June thread already! My how time flies!

KrystieLove...Wow...LOL...you beat me in the no patience catagory...
I have had pain like you described before and it was a result of cysts on my ovaries...I hope your's is due to pregnancy!

Issy...I'm Aries...does it have good news for me?

plc...we love having you and we're all hoping to join you very soon in PAML! Get well soon!

jen...thanks gurlie! Imma hopin for good news! I gotta tell you you're braver than me attempting to temp...I was never able to temp or chart...

Okay ladies time for...

get to




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[AJC]

HI Ladies

Sending you all lots of

Good luck and this thread sees lots of BFP's! ! ! !

to you all.

[Acria]

Morning ladies.

Krystie - thanks for the . I've needed it! I'm not sure why but this AF really got me down..I guess I really thought that cycle was it..even though it was the first month of TTC after a few months' break. Oh well...looks like I'll O in less than a week and have a whole new TWW! Joy!

Jen - glad the witch has disappeared for you too, there's really nothing worse, and I didn't even have money to buy myself chocolate! had a lovely gin and tonic the other evening though, but no more now! Still have the caffiene cut out, and have some money now but am trying to eat more healthily, so still no chocolate. Oh well, it'll all be worth it in the end.

Smilantu - fingers crossed for you in your TWW

plc - hope your throat gets better soon and stays right away from your DS!


pbstar - fingers crossed for you also.

Tina - hi there

mollycat - how are you going chick? I haven't been keeping up I'm afraid, but how is your confusing cycle going? Settled down?

Lisa xx

[mollycat]

Good Morning to everyone

Well the extension is almost finished, just the shower screen to be installed and that should be today. YAY, I've been sorting through all my stuff trying to be brave enough to get rid of some, hasn't really worked.

Acria - glad AF has left, hopefully she won't be back for a very long time. My cycle has finally settled down, I'm now 7DPO and my temps are finally behaving themselves.
AJC - thanks for the good wishes, here's some not that you'll need them, cause you'll be just fine.
Vanaithi - what a wonderful family you must have to be all living in the same house, I could think of nothing worse then living with my parents and/or my in-laws. I'd have to run away. We did live with the in-laws when my eldest was 1, we stayed for about 18mths, I couldn't wait to move out.
PLC - hope your feeling better soon.
Jen - yay for your first temp, it will make it easier for you to see what your body is up to. Almost holidays for your kids, ours have two weeks off at the beginning of July, before that the youngest is going to camp for four days, it will be really quiet around here.

I'll just sprinkle some more around cause one or two (or more) are going to catch some this month. So the more floating around the better.

[plc1805]

Thanks guys - i still feel so crappola but i am resting up as much as possible as i have tickets to the sex and the city movie tonight and i'll be darned if i don't make it!! i watched all 6 seasons of the show in the last few weeks to prepare for this movie - can't wait!!

mollycat - i'm so excited that ur renovations are on the last leg!! i keep thinking that means i have a housewarming party to go to (haha). Nothing wrong with a cyber house-warming party - i could even have some cyber champagne - yeehah!!

big big hugs to everyone else!!!

[Vanaithi]

Hello Ladies! your comments are making me smile today... - not that they dont any other day, but i've noticed im smiling sitting here..

Krystielove: i think my cycle is about 28 days, as i fell pg 2 weeks after my wedding - i had af the very next day! as for my temp, its still 36.5 today, not going up. hmm.. considering getting a digital one...

Jen & Mollycat: nah we just have 1 inlaw living with us. we do not get along with his dad. his parents have gone their own ways & next week dh's mum is going overseas for a long time.. hopefully when she's back she'll have a grandson! or granddaughter... but mother in law's great when she's here. she's been through a lot with that bas****. but anyways... my family's ok most of the time. cant complain much.

Issy & Smilantu: im aries too! hopefully our stars are good this month...

Goodluck with ur prg PLC!

Anyone have any interesting plans for the long weekend here in vic??? me not much.. hoping to share in anyone else's excitement...

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[bettyboop]

i am so annoyed my hospital app has just been canceled.why me

[jen805]

Acria--So we're both CD7, but I see by your ticker that you test in 19 days, and I test in 23. What day is your forecasted O? Were you able to get a chart up and going? My FF shows forecasted O days are the 11-15. My other one says O will be on the 16th, and the Jonas method conception calendar said my fertile day for the month will be on the 16th--but it's 24 hours before the date given, so it would be on the 15th! At least they're all fairly close... I'll be putting that preseed to use for sure! Now hopefully my temps will behave and I'll actually be able to see that I've O'ed by my temps. Do you have an idea of when you'll be O?


I've got a question for anyone on the preseed: Since the applicators are pre-filled, how can I only use half of it without actually using the applicator twice? Someone (I forget who, sorry ) suggested using a medicinal syringe, but how can that be done with a pre-filled applicator?


mollycat--Glad to hear temps are still behaving! Here's some extra to help you along towards your BFP!


plc--Enjoy the movie! you feel better soon!


Vanaithi--Hope you enjoy your long weekend, hey did your preseed come? Hopefully you can put that to use this weekend! Enjoy!


bettyboop--Sorry about your appt. being cancelled, what was it for?


Jodsan--Go spontaneous O! I will trip out and be a true believer if you get your BFP after this! you caught that extra chance!

[Toccara50]

I have a question ladies I don't chart or anything and seeing as I just had an m/c I have know idea what my cycle is doing or where its at on sunday I got sore nips and had some cm tuesday and wednesday I bd and now my nips are even more sore does this mean I O this week??? I had a lil cramping for a quick second today too...

[~ Mylitta ~]

Just a quick "me" post before I change and run off to work. I just got home from my ob apt. He didn't get cranky that we didn't wait to TTC for 2 cycles, lol. He wasn't going to do a scan because he said we wouldn't be able to see even a gestational sac yet, but when I told him about the slight ovary pain I'd been having he decided to do an internal exam to check for cysts. It was all clear He could see some follicles but no cycts and it didn't even hurt when he was pushing the probe on my ovary. Oh, and he also said that lining on my uterus was nice and thick! YAY! He didn't mention seeing a corpus luteum, but I think he was saying that it would be too small. He obviously doesn't think that there is no chance I am preg because he sent me for a hcg bt, and even gave me a second form to have another done next week if it comes back positive. If it's positive and the hcg level goes up he said he might have me back in two weeks for a scan (because I'm paranoid hehehe).

Fingers mega-crossed!!

[jen805]

Sorry, that last post was on a different page, and I didn't want to lose that whole post, so now I'll continue on....


Krystie-- Yay for thick uterus lining and no cysts! Praying for some nice high numbers on your hcg test, when will you get the results? Will you have to wait until Monday for that? Hope you have a nice weekend!


Vanaithi--Hope the preseed worked it's wonders! I've heard a lot of positive stories that came from using preseed, so it works for us! I still have a little time before I can use mine, but I'm looking forward to checking it out!


Acria--So you only have one day that shows O? My fertile days are the same as yours, but it shows possible O from the 11th-15th! Maybe because I've never charted before, so it's never even shown an actual O day for me! Even when I had the watery CM 2 months ago, it changed my fertile days to green, but never actually changed colors and showed that I O'ed. Hopefully time will continue to fly by and we'll be POAS before we even know it!



Hi smilanatu--It's finally Friday! Hope you enjoy your weekend! My summer begins today since school's finally out! I even got to sleep in until 7:10, which is late for me, although I did wake up and take my temp at 5:55! Yay, I now have two dots on my chart!



Abbey--I read in the TWW thread that you may be leaving us at the end of this cycle! Praying you're surprised with a BFP, so we can hold you hostage here with us for a bit longer!



Hi to tempus and tutmae--Haven't heard from you two in a while. Hope all is well with you both!



jenushka--Hope you're enjoying your time with DS! We sure miss hearing from you! Hoping that next time we do, it's a BFP announcement!



megsmum--Hope AF has left the building! Here's to a fresh start that ends with a BFP!



Sending belly rubs and out to Canary, AJC, plc, rainbowgirl, Emmy-Lou, Mel, seenabeena, mmteacher, nickster, Anthonysmom, ll80, Katiegirl, Magda, Trac, and JMG!



Showering the others with bettyboop, tina k, Jodsan, pbstar, mollycat, issy, karan, Angel babies, WTH, SaraJane (poor girl lost her internet, but still thought of no less!), Antheia, Cierasmummy, Leyza, Hussibug, LizJessie, Mazibelle, Natty, and treelo.

[jen805]

Toccara--Will this be your first cycle after m/c? Symptom-wise it sounds like you could've O, but it's hard to say for sure without knowing when your last cycle ended. Did you ever have a hcg test done to make sure all the hormone is out of your system? If the hormone is still present from the pg, then it could trick your body into thinking it's still pg. It took about 5-6 weeks for my levels to get back down, and I could swear that I was still pg! Then again, some women's levels are back down to 0 when they actually m/c, so it's hard to say since it's different for everyone. Have you gone on Fertility Friend and made up a chart? I think it definitely helps you be more aware of what's going on in your cycle, and it also gives you something to do to pass the time--and it's kinda fun! I just started temping, as well, because your chart will be more accurate than it would be if you were going by symptoms alone, ie: cervical mucous, position, etc... I tried that way for 2 months, but my cycle's been different every month since the m/c, so instead of being confused about what's going on inside my body, I'm trying the temping to see if that helps make my cycle more predictable. Just a thought, but maybe you could give that a try--it will at least help pass the time! Good luck!

[Vanaithi]

Hello ladies

bettyboop: sorry about your cancelled appt. hope you get another soon

jen: my preseed did come yesterday & dh & i got a chance to try it out yesterday. we like it! i used the whole thing cos i thought there'd be no way to save it & i reckon the more the better for the little guys to swim around in! im hoping maybe i o'd late or o'd again! 2 eggs! anyways i think the preseed is good, there was hardly any of them dripping out afterwards & even today! i soooo wish i had some of this stuff earlier! good luck for you this month! you're going to be able to try them out soon! you'll catch that egg for sure! i also bought a sperm test. which i will try out soon too...

toccara: how long ago did u have ur mc? you should start temping to see the temp drop on o day.. its really helpful! but yeah maybe whenever you see any cm you should bd! just in case! good luck!

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[Acria]

Hey Jen, my predicted fertile days on FF are 8,9,10 of June and then 11 is my predicted O day. So really..it's come up fairly quickly. I have quite a shiort cycle though, usually 26 or 27 days. So I'm going to assume O could hapen on the 11th or 12th.

Lisa xx