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coco1411 thanks so muchI feel so much emotion and comfort from your words I don't know what else to say xox
I'm sure I've missed heaps of chat since I joined but I noticed on the post jen805 made that she talks about feelings of jealousy, anger, sadness... I am so relieved they are normal! The day after I found out we lost our bub I crazely went to work... One lady started randomly talking about how I needed to have private health for when I am in hospital having babies and went on to describe how awful it was in a public hospital for some of her friends.... After finding out the day before that we lost the baby we were deciding on Tues or wed if we would keep our higher private cover as we have already had it for 18 months and it costs so much money... than not knowing how long it would take to concieve and then having it for another 9 months after we conceive etc... AHHHHH it just seemed so unfair to spend so much money with such an uncertain future... I am rambling now! Anyway we decided to keep the cover because the OB we saw on Monday was SO wonderful under the circumstances we wanted to have him when we do get pg againThen I thought about all the pregnant mums we have coming in and all the clients who come in and ask me if or when I am getting pregnant (which happens almost every day)... GOD it is soooooooo painful!!! I came home and said to hubby "I am never asking a woman if or when she is having a baby"! I am so thankful I don't do that anyway because you never know if they have experienced what I have just been through... I was so looking forward to telling the other pregnant ladies (some of whom are just so lovely) that I was due in October
Now I just get to see them bring in their babies instead
I'm sure you all know what I'm talking about?
Anyway I have a question for everyone as I look to the future and TTC concieve again... Is there a standard sort of time frame it takes to get your period again after a curette / mc? Just want to prepare myself.. Thanks and I hope everyone has a great day![]()




I feel so much emotion and comfort from your words I don't know what else to say xox
Then I thought about all the pregnant mums we have coming in and all the clients who come in and ask me if or when I am getting pregnant (which happens almost every day)... GOD it is soooooooo painful!!! I came home and said to hubby "I am never asking a woman if or when she is having a baby"! I am so thankful I don't do that anyway because you never know if they have experienced what I have just been through... I was so looking forward to telling the other pregnant ladies (some of whom are just so lovely) that I was due in October
Now I just get to see them bring in their babies instead

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