Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ May 08

[jen805]

The other ducky passed away last night before I went to bed.... I don't know what happened, she ate and drank all day long, and cuddled up in my hair by my neck.... I guess there had to be something wrong with all of them to cause them all to pass away in 24 hours. It sure does bring back some unwelcome memories I really thought that one would be ok...

[mmteacher]

Oh Jen so sorry to hear about your ducky-I would be crushed. I'll be thinking of you!

Tempus~Hope you had a very HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! Don't let things get you down-your BFP will come soon!

Issy~Looks like we are cycle buddies-hope we both get Mother's Day BFP's!!!

AJC~Glad you got a +OPK-now get to partying in the sack so you get a +HPT

AFM~Just waiting and waiting and waiting...Get the picture...But I am trying my best to stay relaxed and not get too obsessed-it's hard though!

MMTeacher

[plc1805]

Jen - i am so so sorry to hear of the passing of the last duckling - yeah, that would have been extremely sad for you, poor love. take care, my dear.

tempus - just want to give u a huge hug hun. in the past, i have put so much emphasis on enjoying myself in my bday but in recent years i have been more reflective of my year and life and not too fussed on celebrations. It seems that your bday would have been a little like that - reflective bordering on the "weird". Plus the presence of very intense contradictary feelings of loss and what might have been coupled with feelings another year older, wiser .... all of that. I feel for you and pray that this new age means you will be very blessed. Thank you also for ur prayers - keep some for yourself.

mmteacher -
issy -
mollycat -
AJC - :woot:
emmylou -
tina -
mel A -

Big hugs and hello to every other lovely one of you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[mmteacher]

Hey Jen~Can you post the link for the TWW forum on baby belly? I can't find it...Not sure I will post there since I am trying not to obsess but wanted to at least see it! Thanks!

[jen805]

mmteacher--I found out that I'm not allowed to do that! I tried to send you a private message, but for some reason I could only leave a visitor message, so I didn't leave it there b'cuz I didn't want to get into trouble. Just type it out and add the .com to the end (sorry to the moderators if that's not ok! ) Sorry, hun, hope that helps some! You'll probably lose yourself there for a couple hours--I did!


plc--Good morning baby mama! Hope you're staying calm and relaxed and having happy, positive vibes! I'm using my mental powers right now to send you these very important vibes while you're sleeping.... lol... You're probably thinking, "Yep, she's mental, alright!" Here's some more


AJC--I'm sure I know what you were doing last night after that +OPK!!! Good luck for a BFP!!


tempus--Hope your b-day turned out to be an enjoyable one!


mollycat--Hey cycle buddy! How's the home addition going? Is it staying dry for you?


I had an interesting horoscope yesterday.... It said "One of the groups you belong to is becoming a more important tool for your future". Trippy because this is the only group I belong to! Any other time in my life it wouldn't mean anything, but in this case, it was right on! Thanks to you all!!

[pbstar]

hey girls

how is everyone?

i am dragging my feet this morning, had a few days off (took a long weekend) and today is back to work and i really don't want to go...

anyway i am about halfway through my TWW with virtually no symptoms of anything so i am pretty sure this is not my month. anyway i am ok with it, feeling quite relaxed about the whole TTC thing at the moment so that's good.

issy- those sore bouncing bb's sound very promising!!! would be awesome to be belly buddies together but i'm sure if you go on ahead for now i will catch up with you in the PAML thread eventually!

jen- aw hun sorry about the baby duck, can imagine you probably started getting a little attached, here's a big for you. hey that horoscope of yours sounds very spot on!!

tina- sounds like you are enjoying your job as hard as it is- good to hear!

to everyone else a big hello and big

[AJC]

Morning everyone

Hope you all had a lovely weekend!

Feeling a bit depressed today - I did opk yesterday and it was dark line but not a + so I figured I had O'd but my temp is still not very high??? I feel totally deflated about the whole thing. Last month is shot up nicely but this month - terrible. cd21 BT tomorrow so will be interesting to see what this months results say - my guess is that my dosage will be increased.

Sorry - but just had to vent.

Thanks for listening

[jen805]

pbstar--Thanks for the Sorry you have the back-to-work blues... I'll be feeling it tomorrow, for sure! I'm not a big fan of Monday--it ranks up there with AF!! Remember lots of women don't have any symptoms this early,so although you seem fairly relaxed about it (which is great!), keep the faith! Fingers crossed for you!


AJC-- Sorry you're feeling so blue and so frustrated. I hope you get the results you want for you BT tomorrow. :Goodluck2:


smilanatu--Did you get my sticky, sweaty BD vibes? How's that working for you? Did you catch the eggie, or what, girl?

[tempus moriendi]

Whoa...I can actually post with personals and everything!!! Today is my first day of full flow--I don't know if anybody else feels like this, but my period always feels like some big, giant "reset" button in my life. Everything starts fresh in the new month.

mollycat: I have to confess to being just a little bit jealous--putting on an additin to your house! I think about that from time to time, but I don't want to go through the expense...at least not yet

AJC: I'll be keeping fingers crossed for you even though your symptoms are contradictory! And sending cyberhug

jen805: so sorry about your ducks. You're probably right, there was something wrong with them, but it's sad anyway

mmteacher: sending relaxation vibes

pbstar: IKWYM about not wanting to go to work. that's me nearly every time!

[Vanaithi]

Bettyboop: Thanks for your welcome & sorry to about your loss. Good luck & I hope AF does not come round for you for the next few years at least

Smilanatu: Thank you for your welcome! I hope next time you get a HFP - take a whiff & let me know if it smells like papaya ay?

Jen805: Thank you & I hope very very soon, all of us will be gone from this thread forever! & I do hope (if nobody minds) that everyone who has a suspicion that they're preggers or confirmed to please let me know if theirs smell like papaya or something different to normal. It would be interesting to prove whether im right or just loopy!

Canary: Thank you also for your welcome, hope you get all your wishes this month (& everyone else too!) also the above request applies to you too, so please let me know ok!

Pbstar: Thanks very much for welcoming me. Everybody's support has been great & kept me positive. I wish you all the best as well!

As for me: we've been dtd since last friday & every 2nd day after my boobies are a bit sore & achy since last night & more so today. Whats the chance of conception this early on? - it was 2 weeks since my d&C on satday... or is this just a sign that AF is due soon? hmmm...

[jen805]

Vanaithi-- You've got me I promise as soon as I get a BFP, I'll take big whiffs searching in vain for that faint smell of papaya and then I'll let you know whether or not I think you're loopy! Thanks, hun, you're great!

[mollycat]

TM - it's really exiting watching at the moment - really early stages, just a pile of holes in the ground with a few bits of timber around some (showing the floor level), the council comes in tomorrow and approves the holes (sounds silly), then the builder is back to concrete the bottom and the brickies start the piers. The expense is the scary part, we only had about two more years left on our mortgage and now have another twenty to go with this extension but at least we'll have some space and the boys will finally have their own bedrooms - listening to them argue with each other and telling myself it's only for a couple of more months while we get bedrooms sorted out.
AJC - hoping you did O and it's only the cold mornings here mucking your temps about. Hope you get a good result with your test.
Jen - your making me jealous - wish it was still the weekend here. My weekend went so quickly feel like I didn't get any "me" time.

AFM - AF is still here - really heavy this time (i often get heavy but not this late usually first couple of days), i didn't even get a headache so that was great seeing as though i often get migraines as well.

[plc1805]

Hey lovely ladies!!

jen - I'm ok hun, got my GP appt today at 5.15pm (not sure what that translates to for you) and I poas this morning again (4th time now) so I just gotta get that referral for the ob. I'm not having super positive thoughts but nor am i having super negative thoughts - just trying to remain balanced I suppose. Let me just say that you are NOT mental sweetheart - i can do with all the positive vibes and prayers I can get at any time of the day!! BTW, i love ur horoscope - how cool was that! and also I am very jealous of ur daiquiris - and the milder weather you must be having too. Take care sweet.

Vanaithi - hun, i don't want you to think ur loopy but I have to say that there is not a chance that papaya is happening at toilet time for me at the moment - in fact, the total opposite, not nice. Does the "papaya" concept also extend to flatulence cos I have to also say that there is none of that either - sorry for TMI but it is so bad that i can't even stand it Hope ur well sweet. Not too sure on ur query re early conception.

tempus - how wonderfully cleansing that must feel for u - out all the bad stuff and get it ready for the good

AJC - oh hun - i wish i could send you a real hug but ul just have to really try hard to imagine it. Chin up cos tomorrow things tend to not look so bad (it could take even til the day after). Take care, hun.

pbstar - hugs to you too hun.

mmteacher - don't know if u found it but TWW support is in the same thread as this is "TTCAML". There should be a recent post in the list of posts you'll see that you can click on. GL!

Hey to everyone else and wishing you well all the time.

[mmteacher]

Thx plc-After reading your post, I found it right away...Still reluctant to post quite yet but maybe soon...I have been doing a pretty good job of not going crazy this time!

Jen~I know what you're saying with that other website-I often get caught reading all the success stories and looking for common symptoms!

Well, sorry no more persies...studying for a job interview that I have on Friday!!!!

Talk to you all soon!

MMTeacher

[SugarDust]

I"m not sure if i'm in the right place!

We are TTC next week as soon as AF goes away!

according to chinese calendars this month is my girl month so as soon as AF goes we will be BD like rabbits!

[AJC]

hi mellie. This thread is for people trying to conceive after miscarriage or loss 'TTCAML' , if that applies to you then welcome. If not then there might be a more appropriate thread. I think there are TTC threads and you join according to how long you have been ttc (eg I think there is a 'TTC1-6mths' thread). Good luck and I hope you get your little pink bubba soon.

[pbstar]

hi girls

have been out of action for a few days- have been sick and felt a little down and out after AF came...anyway she is almost leaving, just packing her bags now so i am starting to feel a little better.

i have booked an appt with an acupuncturist and herbalist who specialises in fertility- i figure she must be good because the earliest appt is end of june. anyway we might get lucky before then but in any case i have something to look forward to and be positive about

i will have to read through and catch up on where everyone is at, just wanted to pop in and say a big hello first. hope everyone is well.