Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ May 08

[Vanaithi]

Bettyboop: Thanks for your welcome & sorry to about your loss. Good luck & I hope AF does not come round for you for the next few years at least

Smilanatu: Thank you for your welcome! I hope next time you get a HFP - take a whiff & let me know if it smells like papaya ay?

Jen805: Thank you & I hope very very soon, all of us will be gone from this thread forever! & I do hope (if nobody minds) that everyone who has a suspicion that they're preggers or confirmed to please let me know if theirs smell like papaya or something different to normal. It would be interesting to prove whether im right or just loopy!

Canary: Thank you also for your welcome, hope you get all your wishes this month (& everyone else too!) also the above request applies to you too, so please let me know ok!

Pbstar: Thanks very much for welcoming me. Everybody's support has been great & kept me positive. I wish you all the best as well!

As for me: we've been dtd since last friday & every 2nd day after my boobies are a bit sore & achy since last night & more so today. Whats the chance of conception this early on? - it was 2 weeks since my d&C on satday... or is this just a sign that AF is due soon? hmmm...

[jen805]

Vanaithi-- You've got me I promise as soon as I get a BFP, I'll take big whiffs searching in vain for that faint smell of papaya and then I'll let you know whether or not I think you're loopy! Thanks, hun, you're great!

[mollycat]

TM - it's really exiting watching at the moment - really early stages, just a pile of holes in the ground with a few bits of timber around some (showing the floor level), the council comes in tomorrow and approves the holes (sounds silly), then the builder is back to concrete the bottom and the brickies start the piers. The expense is the scary part, we only had about two more years left on our mortgage and now have another twenty to go with this extension but at least we'll have some space and the boys will finally have their own bedrooms - listening to them argue with each other and telling myself it's only for a couple of more months while we get bedrooms sorted out.
AJC - hoping you did O and it's only the cold mornings here mucking your temps about. Hope you get a good result with your test.
Jen - your making me jealous - wish it was still the weekend here. My weekend went so quickly feel like I didn't get any "me" time.

AFM - AF is still here - really heavy this time (i often get heavy but not this late usually first couple of days), i didn't even get a headache so that was great seeing as though i often get migraines as well.

[jen805]

mollycat--No use being jealous of me--you'll get to Friday faster than I will! At least Fridays are the beginning of the weekend, where as Sundays are the end! Now it's dreaded Monday for me... I think I'm feeling a little hung over this morning! If it weren't for AF I would swear I was pg! Have felt headachy and slightly nauseous all morning, but I know it's due to my tasty daquiri's! Sorry to hear AF is heavier than usual, but glad to hear no migraine! For some reason Flo's been really gentle on me this month--I keep waiting for the other shoe to fall, it can't possibly be this easy for me! Hope this doesn't mean she's going to stick around longer than usual! Fingers crossed she'll pack her bags and make a quick getaway for you.


plc--How'd your appt. go? Hope you got lots of good news!


mmteacher--Good on your job interview on Friday! It's almost time for you to test, isn't it? Fingers are crossed for you!


Vanaithi--Happy O! Now's your time to go after that egg!


AJC--Hope you enjoyed the site! BTW, I enjoyed every sip so much that I'm still feeling it this morning! Not quite as enjoyable the next day!


nickster--Sounds like a fun day off! I wish I didn't have to work today, even though I'm really lucky, and my work day is only 1 1/2 hours! Eat some pasties and ice cream for me, too, please! Thanks for clarification on the time difference! Hope you're enjoying your !


smilanatu--Back to the huh? You're lucky--wish we were still cycle buds! those caught the eggie!!!

[plc1805]

Hey Jen - yeah appt went well. However, my doc could not have been more disinterested in the fact that i was pg - i think he is stale in his job and has been there for too long. Anyway, i asked to get the hcg bt and even tho he was not enthused i still insisted. Boy! After what you and i and the rest of the girls have been thru ud think a GP would over-extend a little with the encouragement and enthusiasm. Not to worry. Then i had bt so get results next day which is today (tomorrow ur time). I asked my GP if the results showed up low should i have another test and he thought about it and said ..... yes. Like getting blood from a stone, really.

Hey everyone else - sorry for a me post - but my thoughts are truly always with you all.

[jen805]

plc--Sorry your visit was so discouraging. I agree, I think especially someone in the medical field would be capable of a little more empathy and have the ability to encourage and support someone that's been through this type of trauma! Good luck on your BT, I'm sure you've got some nice high numbers by now! How have you been feeling? Any noticeable symptoms yet? Any thoughts about seeing a new dr?

[pbstar]

morning ladies

well i made it through the dreaded monday in one piece and now only 4 more days to the weekend...

hey ajc- sorry to hear you were down yesterday, hope today is better for you and good luck with the BT

jen- thanks for your encouragement. usually i can at least imagine some symptoms this early but this time- nothing! i think maybe deep down i know it is going to be a BFN so i am not letting myself get my hopes up. hey and you're so right- at least when AF arrives i can console myself with a pina colada or two!

plc- sorry to hear your doctor was so unsympathetic, i don't think they realise how important it is for them to give you some peace of mind sometimes...hopefully the ob you go to will be better then the gp. have you made an appt yet? good luck with your BT and let us know how you go.

to all of the other lovely ladies

oh and some

[plc1805]

Hey lovely ladies!!

jen - I'm ok hun, got my GP appt today at 5.15pm (not sure what that translates to for you) and I poas this morning again (4th time now) so I just gotta get that referral for the ob. I'm not having super positive thoughts but nor am i having super negative thoughts - just trying to remain balanced I suppose. Let me just say that you are NOT mental sweetheart - i can do with all the positive vibes and prayers I can get at any time of the day!! BTW, i love ur horoscope - how cool was that! and also I am very jealous of ur daiquiris - and the milder weather you must be having too. Take care sweet.

Vanaithi - hun, i don't want you to think ur loopy but I have to say that there is not a chance that papaya is happening at toilet time for me at the moment - in fact, the total opposite, not nice. Does the "papaya" concept also extend to flatulence cos I have to also say that there is none of that either - sorry for TMI but it is so bad that i can't even stand it Hope ur well sweet. Not too sure on ur query re early conception.

tempus - how wonderfully cleansing that must feel for u - out all the bad stuff and get it ready for the good

AJC - oh hun - i wish i could send you a real hug but ul just have to really try hard to imagine it. Chin up cos tomorrow things tend to not look so bad (it could take even til the day after). Take care, hun.

pbstar - hugs to you too hun.

mmteacher - don't know if u found it but TWW support is in the same thread as this is "TTCAML". There should be a recent post in the list of posts you'll see that you can click on. GL!

Hey to everyone else and wishing you well all the time.

[mmteacher]

Thx plc-After reading your post, I found it right away...Still reluctant to post quite yet but maybe soon...I have been doing a pretty good job of not going crazy this time!

Jen~I know what you're saying with that other website-I often get caught reading all the success stories and looking for common symptoms!

Well, sorry no more persies...studying for a job interview that I have on Friday!!!!

Talk to you all soon!

MMTeacher

[Vanaithi]

I think I can answer my own question: I think the sore boobies are just signs of ovulation! Wishful thinking Oh well! keep on trying!

[AJC]

Vanaithi - I'm not sure if I have welcomed you or not - might have missed your post. If not welcome if I already have but just forgotten then Welcome again. I hope your time in here is very short and you get a BFP very soon!!!

mmteacher - GL for Friday's interview.

plc - lots and lots of sticky vibes for you - bucket loads, tonnes ....... Thanks for keeping us updated.

mollycat - glad af spared you one of her headaches, they're the worst! She needs to stay away completely next time though.

Jen - Strawberry Daquiri - yummo, hope you enjoyed every sip! Sorry to hear about the little ducklings, they're such sweet little things I love their little 'cheep cheep'. My grandparents always had ducks and chickens and I just loooved it when they had ducklings.

Tempus - hope you enjoyed your more relaxed day today. AF is like a bit of a reset isn't she. Although I think all of us don't need to be reset again for at least another 9 months!

pbstar - you just never know this could be your month and I hope it is. I'm glad you are relaxed about it though because that is a thing that is very hard to do. GL ! ! !

Everyone else - GL to those in tww (am going to go and check out that website Jen told us about shortly) and to all of those about to O - GL!!!

Babydust and hugs to all