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thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ November 2010

  1. #271
    BellyBelly Member

    Apr 2010
    PROSTON QLD.
    604

    MummyDeb~ Sorry your Open house didn't go great for you hun but I agree with mummytotwo it only takes 1 person to make that sale good luck and happy house hunting.

    Mummytotwo~ Hope that egg pops soon for you hun and you get your BFP, good luck and get to sizzling that sausage darl.....lol And I guess it only does take 1 go to get that BFP I just haven't had any luck in the past but you never know hey.

    Kirsten~ Sending you some massive hugs hun, and I think it's great that the 3 of us can share the 2WW together......Not sure what day I can test on my LP has been any where from 6-10days each cycle. So if I go by that I should be testing on 4th Dec. onwards but I'm pretty sure AF will be here this week sometime, so it will be CD5 I start my Clomid.

    AFM~ Well as I said earlier FF has told me I O'd on CD25, usually have a LP of 6 days but last cycle it was 10 days so expecting AF by this week end at the latest. I was rudely awoken this morning with cramping at 4a.m and it wasn't like AF cramps either it was more like a sharp stabbing pain on both sides of my lower belly. So got up and went to the loo and relieved my bladder as I thought maybe it was cramping from an over full bladder but it never eased it at all. The cramps only lasted a few minutes then were gone again. Have no idea what the hang that was all about. Scared the hang out of me though.

  2. #272
    Registered User

    Mar 2010
    335

    Clairesmummy, Minnie, Mum2Ramone: good luck to you in the TWW. Hope you caught your eggies!
    Joeve: sorry for BFN. Really sux when AF shows up.
    Mathewsmum: hope you are well
    Stoked: Congrats on the BFP!
    Melster: i hope things settle down and no more scares for you
    Hello Mummydeb, Mummytotwo,Sweetie and Kirsten, i've been AWOL for a while so we haven't 'met': Best of luck with your egg hunting!
    Hi to anyone else i missed!

    AFM: I've been posting mostly in the LTTTC thread now as it's been 18mths since we started trying for number two and its hard to keep up with two threads... but i should pop in here too as we are DTD to get pg whereas many of the LTTTC ladies are on IVF. I'm missing having good ole discussions about EWCM! I'm starting to get some- good description Clairesmummy!- and my hormones have kicked in so i feel like DTD and so we went for it last night even though it was probably too early to catch the egg (at least three days til 'O'). It's nice to do it just cos i feel like it sometimes; there's so many days when i don't because of AF, too tired etc.
    Last edited by possum magic; November 29th, 2010 at 07:20 PM.

  3. #273
    Registered User

    Jun 2007
    Morayfield, Qld
    712

    Just a quick question to you girls who have had a DnC...did u get any slight pain about 2 and a bit weeks after having it? I have some lower pain in wat seems to be my uterus area... dunno if its ovulation pain...but its just starting to niggle at me...might have to call the doctor... dunno, its not like its crippling me but annoying enough to worry... thanks for any help

  4. #274
    BellyBelly Member

    Apr 2010
    PROSTON QLD.
    604

    Possum~ hey hun nice to see you back in here again.....don't leave us here we miss you and you can only leave if you have your long awaited BFP.....lol....just kidding darl. 18months of TTC takes it toll hey, we have been trying to get our BFP now for 27months darl and as you know I'm still here.....lol.....They say all good things come to those who wait all the ladies that have to wait any longer than 12 months I reckon when we do get our BFPs we are all in for something extremely special....well I hope so anyhow darl. Any way darl it's so great to see you in here posting again I was starting to wonder where you went......might have to send out a search party if you go missing again....lol.....Hope you catch that egg darl and FX for you for an extra special BFP....oh and don't forget that the feeling of wanting to aahhhh ummmm have your way with your DH is a great sign you are fertile so get to it hun and catch that egg......Sending you lots of baby dust.

    MummyDeb~ Sorry darl I can't help you at all about the D&C my MC was natural thankfully as I'm scared witless of anything to do with surgery......Hope somebody can give you some answers though.

  5. #275
    Registered User

    Jun 2010
    Brisbane
    56

    Aww Deb, the horrible dnc After mine I felt as had extra bleeding with period pain... So looking back at my cycle dates, I think I may of actually had my period?? So don't worry you should be able to try again soon.

  6. #276
    Registered User

    Oct 2006
    In a house, on a hill with a big fat welcome mat!
    6,772

    How boring is AF????? That is all .....

  7. #277
    BellyBelly Member

    Apr 2010
    PROSTON QLD.
    604

    Joeve~ AF is very boring.....are you going to start your clomid hun????

  8. #278
    Registered User

    Oct 2006
    In a house, on a hill with a big fat welcome mat!
    6,772

    No to the clomid this month, was going to be too hard with the monitering etc so next month! Just as a side thing my FS told me no horse riding in the tww....

  9. #279
    BellyBelly Member

    Apr 2010
    PROSTON QLD.
    604

    Are you serious.........no horse riding? OMG I haven't been told that yet......my gp told that as long as I don't over do anything and to keep doing what I do everyday......did yah FS say why no horse riding?

  10. #280
    BellyBelly Member

    Mar 2009
    1,385

    Hello Ladies!

    Still Lurking... Can't wait to see some BFP's in here Verrrry soon... i can feel it!!!

    xxx

  11. #281
    Registered User

    Jun 2007
    Morayfield, Qld
    712

    Sweetie, I think all of my period came out at the DnC cos I had no bleeding after it! All I have now is just this twinge down below, could be anything I guess...but yes we have given it a good shot for getting another BFP hehe, 5 times now lol... I'm so lucky with my DF, he loves any chance to BD hehe

    I so will be glad to get at the end of the 2WW which I think I may just be in!!

    Joeve, thats strange about no horseriding! Wat a bugger for you horsey girls... oh and talking about horses, theres a chance we may be looking at a house with a decent horse paddock!! So happy, might be able to get my horse after all...

    Big Good Mornings to everyone and hoping for some good news with BFP etc lots of and to you

    xoxoxox

  12. #282
    Registered User

    Aug 2010
    810

    Im lurking too...thinking of all you ladies..and lets hope we get some more BFPs.....good luck to all those in the ttw!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  13. #283
    Registered User

    Jun 2007
    Morayfield, Qld
    712

    Just a quick question...Am I doing a bad thing TTC so soon after a DnC??? I just get told by a "so called" friend i could do more damage to my body if i fall preg to soon...She has scared me... We aren't like fully trying but I have already said I won't go back on the pill just to wait a few months... I can't wait that long... I miss being pregnant so much!!!

    Thanks for any help!

  14. #284
    BellyBelly Member

    Apr 2010
    PROSTON QLD.
    604

    MummyDeb~ I have been told that you are more fertile after a loss and most people I know who have had a loss start trying straight away. I have also read alot of success stories with TTC straight after a loss and women have gone on to have very healthy little bubs. I guess if it's really stressing you out you could ask your GP or FS hun. But honestly I would go with whatever you feel comfortable with. When the DR thought I would need a D&C they told me they would prefer I not try any TTC for at least 3 months only because they said it would give my body time to heal from the loss. But as it seems 8 months on I am still TTC so waiting never helped me 1 iota.

  15. #285
    Registered User

    Aug 2010
    810

    mummydeb...there is so much advise out there its kinda scary.. is you're "friend" experienced with this stuff? Theres loads of info for both for and against... my ob told me there was no reason i could not try straight away after my D&C and we did but it took me 4mths to fall...some say not to due to dating purposes for the dr, due to lining, and emotionally.....but i have heard quiet a few fall pregnant straight away with no issues....someone said...you wont fall pregnant if you're body is not ready.....so if it were me i wouldnt worry....

  16. #286
    Registered User

    Jun 2007
    Morayfield, Qld
    712

    Oh thanks girls... My doctor was quite happy for us to try when we were ready, she never said there was any time to wait etc!! My friend has had m/c, but I think she actually has some serious problems with trying to stay pregnant...I know she was prob trying to be nice, but I just can't wait...we wanted our angel so bad, and we were trying for a reason, I don't want to wait much longer, i was hoping my children would all be fairly close in age!

  17. #287
    BellyBelly Member

    Apr 2010
    PROSTON QLD.
    604

    Melster~ WooHoo for 7 weeks........and good luck with your scan this week....I have everything crossed for you, hope the bleeding has now gone for you and you don't see any more until after bub is born.....

    MummyDeb~ I would just say your friend is doing her job as a good friend and trying to protect you from any more pain darl. Good Luck and if your DR said it's ok to go ahead and TTC and you are wanting to go for it darl.

  18. #288
    Registered User

    Nov 2006
    675

    MummyDeb - sorry don't remember any pain 2ish weeks after D&C (either time I had one). Both times the first day of bleeding (the day of the D&C) I counted as cycle day 1 & both times my proper AF came 28 days later. If it is enough that it is causing you stress go see your doc & check it out. Physically I beleive most people are ready to start ttc straight away after a m/c (D&C or natural). It is more the emotional they worry about.... Do what feels right to you & all the best!!
    Possum Magic - glad to see you back in the thread. I hung out in the LTTTC once upon a time so know about these pg's that take forever to happen. Best of luck for this cycle
    CM - I would think the doc might say no horse riding during the 2ww only in case you are pg & have a fall etc. Do you ride at all when pg? Again if you feel comfortable riding your horsey I would say keep doing it!
    Melster & Stoked - HI! Thanks for stalking us all & for the bfp vibes....
    Hi to everyone else - remember when I said I didn't post much? Look at me I am ON FIRE
    BBL....

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