Ruthie - thanks for the kind words. I booked my nuchal scan for the 7/10/08 which is 12 weeks. Don't think you can do a nuchal any earlier, but if I need to I will in insists on going for an earlier scan to make sure everything is still ok. Don't want to get myself all worked up and stressed out but it's hard not to as you know. I also had some questionable comments from my husbands mate when I had my ectopic, people like that will never know what your going through untill it happens to them. I know it's hard and a pain in the a_ _ but we just have to ignore people like that and get on with TTC