Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ September 08 #2

larz: :pray: that everything is ok, i'm sure it will be. let us know how you get on.

AJC: you enjoy every min of it that you can. i'm finding it hard to until i get to that vital 12 week point!! but enjoy all those kicks! :hug:

anneebee: dont think we've spoken yet!! Hello and welcome :p

issy02 & Jen805: :pray: Get POAS again and give us that :bfp:

AFM: Well i can finally relax. My job is safe!!! :dance:

My boss made a special effort to come and tell me first as he knew i would be stressing and told me i didnt need it, which i thought was nice of him :hug:

So i'm safe :hooray:

But i do feel soooo sorry for the 9 people that were selected from our dept. It was such a horrible day yesterday! and the overal count of 50 who will be losing their jobs.

Oh and to top it off DF is ill!!!!

Jen Jen....... If I m not online... get me mobile number of Krystie and text me.... must know.... biting nails.....

Hi ladies,


Sorry I dont have time to do personal posts today. I have been really busy, it was my birthday yesterday and my parents surprised me with a visit they live in Queensland so I wasn't expecting that.

I just wanted to say JEN POAS ALREADY!!!!!

Just wanted to let you all know I havent forgotten about you all and throwing around lots of :pink-babydust::bluedust:

Glad to see that everything is getting back to normal on the site. I couldn't believe what had happened whilst I was away. Like JEN said this is her sanctuary and it is mine and I am sure that it is for alot of other people on here.

Ohhh and LARZ goodluck :goodluck2:with your u/s tomorrow. Saying lots of :pray: for you.

I did say no time for personals but just had to say one more Angel Glad that everything went well with your transfer sounds like you and DH are a wonderful couple with the things you do for each other. I really hope you get your BFP and have your healthy miracle baby (Gabriel).

Jenushka Dh took menevit it is like elevit for women. It is solelyput together to focus on mens semen. Type menevit into google search and take a look at their webpage it explains everything on there.

Okay really gotta go DH said my dinner is getting cold.

Cool - thanks Tam. I've heard of menevit and now hearing of the vast improvement your dh had I'm off to the chemist tomorrow to pick some up for my dh. Thanks for getting back to me and enjoy your parent's visit. Happy bday for yesterday too...


And yeah - Jen your response said it all. This is our safe place and I'm pretty annoyed that it has felt icky over the last few days. That said let's throw even more :bluedust::pink-babydust: around and bring the good vibes back :) And Jen - I am logging on at dawn tomorrow to see the results of your poas! Am excited for you hun ...

AFM - so I guess I didn't o like I thought i was going to over the weekend ... temp has not gone up and I kept getting neg opk's. Today though .... EWCM EWCM EWCM!!! Yayayayayay!!!!! But still a neg opk?!?! Pretty confused but it is definite ewcm as dh and I have not bd'd for almost a week. Am thinking of chucking the opk's if I don't get a + in the next couple of days and just bd'ing for the sake of it ;) Anyone else noticed though how hard it is to feel like a wanton sex goddess on a Tuesday night? :rofl:

Good morning girls.... reading thru the posts trying to catch up.... Had a lovely greeting from AF as soon as I got out of bed.... Grrr! But it was expected, so I'm as fine with it as I can be. Looks like it's time to build a bridge and get over it, and give it a try all over again....

This is just a quick one to say.....GOODLUCK JEN....Im :pray: hard for you babe! Bring on the bfp :D

Well, the positive line is more than a shadow, its light but its blue and its there...DH can see it too. So, I test again tomorrow and if its a veeeerrrryyyy light positive again, im off to the dr straight away for tests (strict orders by FS to do this now that im a recurrent m/c patient :() If its positive, i hope I have caught it in time for support drugs as Im only about 7 dpo.

Again, gl jen, ill be checking in on you......:pray::pray::pray:

Im sooooo sorry jen, we posted at the same time :( It never gets any easier does it. I remember almost 4 years ago being so excited at ttc our second, then month after month passed and no luck....before I knew it, it had been almost 4 years... every month is as hard as the last. I pray so hard that this new cycle is blessed with a happy ending hun, as I said you deserve it and your bfp must be just around the corner.

pbstar used to say.....1 step closer, every month, we're 1 step closer :hug:

Good Morning Gurlies!

jen...:hug: I want you to know even being separated from Lee I STILL act as if I'm in a TWW every month...strange...AF was a week early this month...GRRRRRRRRRRR

AJC...I am so pleased things are moving right along for you! Thanks for the hugs!

tut...WOW...11 weeks already...you go gurlie!

Angel...I'm praying sooooo hard for you!

To the rest of my ladies :hug: and :pink-babydust::bluedust:
:stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy:

Krystie--Hey, no more Paris Hilton in your ticker.... now I'm trying to picture you with Pamela Anderson's bb's! :rofl: That's a bit much to strive for, don't you think? ROFL



Toccara--Oh you poor thing! I'm sorry, I wish I knew the answer regarding the low iron being a cause of the m/c. Will try to google it for you later to see what I can find out. I'm sorry you have to deal with this right now! Super big :hug: coming your way!



tutmae--:goodluck2: with Friday's scan! Can't wait to hear all about that little :heartbeat: I think AF needs some of your Hulk smash stylee punishment--go beat her up for me, will you?



larz--Saying major :pray: for your u/s today! :stickyvibesgirl:



AJC--So happy to hear you're able to relax and enjoy being pg! Good for you, you deserve it! :hug:



fifi--Yay! Relieved for you to hear that your job is safe! :dance: Hope DF feels better soon!

Angel--You can stop biting your nails now.... didn't your mom ever tell you that you can get worms from biting your nails? :rofl: Sorry, my mom always used to tell me that--and she was right--twice! Ewwww, I know! ROFLMAO



Tam-- :happybirthday: yesterday! Oh yeah, we had a whole little soap opera theme going on while you were gone.... I believe plc called it Days of our TTC LIves! LOL...



jenushka--Yay for EWCM!!! :dance: Buggers on the -OPK's... that kept happening to me last cycle.... I say you better start getting your jig on, you don't want to miss that eggie--just in case! I agree, this thread sure could use some more :bluedust: :pink-babydust: to help ease the tension and bring our stellar little thread back to it's prime! Big :hug: for you, and good luck with O!!



issy--Aww, thanks, hon.... you're so sweet! I'm :pray: so hard for that BFP for you!!! Good luck with POAS this am!! I've got everything crossed for you!



smi--Old habits die hard, don't they? :hug: Sorry to hear that stupid witch paid you a visit, as well!

hi ladies!

it's been a while but i just wanted to pop my head in and say hi to everyone...i still pop in now and then to check on you all and i'm glad to see there have been some more BFP's lately too- congrats girls!

jen- so good to see you are still sticking up for everyone here and helping to keep this a safe and positive place. i'm sorry to hear AF just arrived, like issy said keep your chin up and keep going, some good news is just around the corner for you and you are one step closer to getting there. :hug:

issy- wow sounds like you have a bfp hun! i won't celebrate too loudly yet but am holding my breath to see what your results are today....will be popping back later to check on you :hug:

to everyone else sending lots of :hug: and :pray: and hope you are all well

afm- haven't been in for ages because i have been really sick and i knew this wasn't the place to sook about it. really it is good because it has been reassuring for me to know things are still ticking along (even though i know logically that being sick is not a guarantee things are still ok) anyway am 10weeks and 3 days now, just had a scan yesterday and was blown away to see a little bub in there kicking and waving like crazy. doc thinks i must be drinking heaps of coffee but i swear i haven't had any! so finally it is starting to sink in that being pregnant is not just about feeling sick and having sore bb's it means there is a little life in there...pretty silly but up til now it hasn't felt that way. i have my 12 week scan in a couple of weeks so will be telling the world after that...can't wait.

anyway girls i miss you all and am spreading lots of :pink-babydust::bluedust: for everyone, take care xoxo

Sneaky post before work...

Jen - great big :hug: lovely - so sorry that the witch showed up for you. Thanks for your encouragement to bd! We did but temp still low this morning so looks like I might still have another chance to catch the eggie again tonight! Hope today is not too rough on you. Its bloody hard work fronting up and being a trooper again and again. Make sure everybody is lovely to you today :)

Issy - wow that's great. Quiet congrats - hoping tomorrow's test is even darker and that you can get the support drugs asap

pbstar - great to hear from you. Not good to hear that you have been so sick, but what a great scan you had. Not long now until 12 weeks!

Better go - have a ds who is sytematically destroying his bedroom so had better dash and head off to work.

:bluedust::pink-babydust:

xx

Jen - sorry that fatty fat face showed her ugly head - you'd think by now she would know that there is no welcome at your house. :hug:

Issy - hoping that todays test shows a BFP for you.

Jenushka - all the best with bd fest - looks like we're almost cycle buddies.

PBStar - was only thinking of you the other day, glad things are going really well for you. all the best at your next scan. How cute to see bub moving around.

Smi - hows the house hunting going.

Fifi - glad to hear your job is safe. One less thing to worry about for you.

pbstar--Thanks, mate! ;) Always good to hear from you! Congrats on your scan--how cool to see your little bub kicking and waving away at you! :hooray: Are you waiting until your 12 week scan to put up a ticker? Hope your m/s calms down a bit so that we can hear from you more often! :hug:



jenushka-- What's going on with those temps--you aren't sharing thermometer's with me and mollycat, are you? :o Got any O pains with that EWCM?? Better keep those BD'ing shoes on, sounds like you're still in the green.... hopefully you'll see some higher temps for the next three days.


mollycat--Looks like it's about time for you to have your BD'ing shoes on, too! How are you feeling lately, a little better? :hug:


Sending you both some extra :pink-babydust: :bluedust: :pink-babydust: for O time!!

Jenushka - Good luck catching that eggie! I've had heaps of problems with OPKs too and if I were you I'd definitely bd just in case. I'd also recommend Menevit too - my DH takes it at the suggestion of our FS. He doesn't have any swimmer problems, but the FS said the antioxidants in it can help with DNA fragmentation which can happen more often in older blokes (like DH ;)) and can cause m/c.

pbstar - Glad to hear you are going well :) Hope the ms eases up for you soon.

Jen - Cycle buddy! I'm sorry to hear that stupid AF showed up :hug: Hopefully this will be her last visit for 9 months. Oh and what's this about junkie friend?? :p

issy - Oooo sounds very promising! Good luck for tomorrow and hope that line gets darker for you.

Tam - Happy birthday for yesterday!

fifi - Glad to hear your job is safe. My DH got made redundant from his job last year, and it is definitely no fun knowing your time is just about up. We were lucky though, he scored a new job fairly quickly.

larz - I hope all goes well with the u/s today :pray:

Angel - Excellent to hear that the IUI went well :) Good luck with the TWW and enjoy the pessaries ;) fun aren't they? LOL

Hi to everyone else that I've missed!

AFM - DD was at preschool yesterday so I went and had a facial and a massage, it was lovely and relaxing. Actually I almost fell asleep LOL I'm just so tired lately because of the side effects of the nasal spray. Have also started having some twinges in the ovaries too - hoping that that means the FSH is doing the job, I am on day 7 of injections now. After the twinges I went and jumped straight on the scales last night to weigh myself though - sudden weight gain can mean hyperstimulation - but my weight was OK, still the same as is was before I started the injections. Only 2 more sleeps until scan day :dance: hopefully they will find lots of nice follies and we will be on for an egg pickup sometime next week.

Jen Jen..... Worms... hmmmmm no... have to say mum never said anything about it....

Megsmum.... thank you... and yes the perseries... hmmmm such a Wonderful feeling... my favourite time of the day.... NOT ;)

Pbstar.... thrilled for you hun.... i know.. its bad to say.. ohhhh your really sick and I m so happy for you.....


smilanatu..... thanks hun... I dont have my fingers crossed or anything... accupunturist told me not to.... she said she would cross hers for me but I wasnt allowed to.....

Ohhh and Jen Jen... a further note.... you had better not be waiting on me....

Just a quick one today ladies.....sorry, got the head in the books today.....grrrrrr!

I didnt POAS this morning, DH convinced me to wait until tomorrow to get a better idea of whats going on....damn pee stick nazi that he his :rolleyes:

pbstar - thanks for dropping in hun, now youll have to come back tomorrow....what a shame ;) So glad to hear your scan went so well, how amazing to have seen your little one bouncing around the screen....DS was like that too when we saw him at 10 weeks, he was doing gymnastics in there, flipping all over the place....6 years later...he's still the same :)

Angel - GL with the IUI....relax and visualise that lovely little Gabriel growing stronger and stronger everyday :pray:

Will be bbl for more persies....huge :hug: to everyone.

Issy

Hi ALL

Just wanted to thank you all for the well wishes and :pray:. I think I just panicked a little!

u/s sound went really well, baby has grown so much since the last u/s. Now 3cm and heart beat is 163, baby was even moving it's arms. So amazing, they couldn't find anything wrong, so guess I just over reacted!

Thanks again and :hug: to all