Dellydoo - I first met you when you gave me an excellent recipe for chicken soup, i lost touch with you during your pg time, I am so sorry that the loss of your beautiful boy means you are a presence on this thread but your presence on this thread has already touched us all so much. I send many prayers your way today. Love to you hun.
Well ladies today was so so hard.
We said goodbye to Charles with friends and family. My darling, sweet, courageous DP was my strength and we cried together. He is buried with other sweet souls in Mater Memorial Garden. I felt so supported in the church and looked at the other mothers wrapped up in their grief knowing that we would all make it through.
Thanks so much for your incredible support
Love to you all
Adele
Oh dellydoo ... great big my lovely. I can imagine that today would have been very difficult and would have left you feeling quite raw. What a strong woman though - that you could already see a positive whilst being surrounded by sadness - that is the sign that you will make it through, with whatever help you need.
You have a wonderful dp too by the sounds of it and that is a big strength. Go and give him a great big squeeze! What did he cook you for brekkie?
I am thinking of your beautiful boy Charles tonight - farwell little man...
GL with your appt tomorrow too - would love to hear how you get on
Also just wanted to say a huge big thank you to chappas, megsmum, larz, dellydoo, AJC, jen, Hannah, Tutmae, plc, WTH and Milla for all of your lovely messages of congratulations!
Am completely stoked and strangely not as shaky as I was with the last pg .... that will come and go I'm sure. Just feeling pretty zen - I know that whatever happens with this little bean is pretty much beyond my control so I'll just sit back and take a seat for the ride Can't believe that I have such strong symptoms already - had to do a bit of self-talk on the train this morning in order not to barf Sore bbs and heartburn too which are all very encouraging but I shall try not to over-analyse!
Off to the GP on Fri morning to request a bt and an ultrasound referral, and an ob referral too I suppose...
21--Hi back to Mr. 21! Hope his appt. went well, and you get some encouraging news!
Megsmum--Yay for being cycle buds again! I knew if I kept calling you that for long enough that it would happen again! Sorry you've had to have so many scans.... C'mon Fred, grow! Hope your 6th scan shows some improvement so you can move forward with the IUI on Saturday!
larz--4 days left.... counting down with you!
delllydoo--I'm so very sorry that you had to say goodbye to your little Charles yesterday! Hope yesterday's OB appt, and that today's FS appt, goes well! Thinking of you!
hannah--Hi's and Hope you're doing well!
mummyO3B--Sorry to hear AF is late, and about your BFN.... big for you!
mumstheword--Prenatal vitamins have everything in it you need before, during, and after pg. Also, the vertical line on your chart shows O, and the horizontal line allows you to see the difference between your pre and post O temps. Hope that helps!
WTH--So sorry to hear about your low estrogen levels. Hope the increased FSH injections help!
Milla--Yay for learning the smileys! I can still remember the day I figured it out--I was so excited!
jenushka--I'm still so happy for you, hon! Good luck with your GP appt on Friday. Good for you for feeling so relaxed and finding your zen--it's sure to help make this a successful pg'cy!! Big hugs for you and some too!!
Angel--Sorry to have missed you yesterday! Looked for you this am... can't wait until our Friday chat! Thinking of you always... Hope you have a Faaaaantastic day!
Hey Tam! Hope things are well with you! Big hugs....
Krystie & plc--Lot's of belly rubbin' coming your way! Miss you both... hope to see you both in chat on Friday!
Dellydoo- I know im only new to this site and dont know you personally but im so sorry for you! Your partner sounds wonderful, its great to know there are men out there who are so passionate and not afraid to show emotions, my partner blames himself for our loss and he even cries sometimes! so im pleased to hear you DP is grieving and not holding it in like mine did for so long. Il be thinking of you and your hope gives me hope.
Just an update im going to the GP next week to ask to get tested for PCOS and my hormone levels, I guess thats a start what else would you guys recommend as I want to exhaust all options before paying the dollars to see FS. we also find out next week how DP's swimmers are. Im also going to start vitamin b6 after next AF what do you guys think of that? does it do any good i read that it extends your luteal phase ( time after ovulation until menstruation) and that a luteal phase shorter than 10 days almost never ends in pregnancy! i was shocked as i swear i ovulate day 20 of a 28 day cycle.
Jen- haha he was watching me post on the laptop last night and said he "wanted to see what i was doing" he is so supportive and sits here and reads the posts along with me. I love him to death!
2 years TTC one blighted ovum, hoping for a 2009 baby!
First of all BIG CONGRATULATIONS TO JENUSHKA WOW!! Fantastic news, I must admit I stalk your chart and a few of the others just to see if I'm doing mine right, at the momet I just use paper charts but my temps are all over the place at the moment with my cylce trying to regulate itself after my m/c. I'm glad your relaxing and taking it easy and not stressing, I know I was completely stressed out and worried with my pregnancy and at the end of the day there is nothing we can do but just leave it up to mother nature and God! So be calm and relax....keep us up to date with it and enjoy growing that big belly!
Dellydoo - big big to you and your DP, Im amazed at what a strong person you are, I know you'll have your forever baby soon and am praying that 2009 brings this for you and for all of us.
Angel - another strong woman, what a great sisterhood we have on this thread and even around us, our family and friends whom we rely on, I mean women just have this knack of being there for eachother, just fabulous isn't it, its one of God's gifts I think. YOu are an inspiration to all of us and your bub is out there just waiting to be part of your life, you just got to keep the faith....
Jen - you are so full of knowledge and I know who to come to now to get my questions answered thankyou....how you going with the ttcing??? we haven't DTD this week at all yet, Im still lightly bleeding and spotting at certain times during the day but I can see the CM when I wipe (sorry to be gross) so we are still going to try tonight and again on Saturday, you never know hey?? seeing OB for the first time at end of this month and have a list of questions for him already! for both of us!!!
to all and big cheerios to all the girls I've missed, am so busy at work right now that I hardly get a chance to post.....so please forgive me for the lack of personals!!! I read all your posts and think of you all often.
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my lovely. I can imagine that today would have been very difficult and would have left you feeling quite raw. What a strong woman though - that you could already see a positive whilst being surrounded by sadness - that is the sign that you will make it through, with whatever help you need.
Can't believe that I have such strong symptoms already - had to do a bit of self-talk on the train this morning in order not to barf
Sore bbs and heartburn too which are all very encouraging but I shall try not to over-analyse!
and
to you all
Hope his appt. went well, and you get some encouraging news!
I knew if I kept calling you that for long enough that it would happen again! Sorry you've had to have so many scans.... C'mon Fred, grow! Hope your 6th scan shows some improvement so you can move forward with the IUI on Saturday!
Charles yesterday!
Good luck with your GP appt on Friday. Good for you for feeling so relaxed and finding your zen--it's sure to help make this a successful pg'cy!! Big hugs for you and some
too!!
Miss you both... hope to see you both in chat on Friday!
may your stay here be short and may you be blessed!
to you and your DP, Im amazed at what a strong person you are, I know you'll have your forever baby soon and am praying that 2009 brings this for you and for all of us.
for both of us!!!
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