thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ September 2008

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  1. #1
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    Jan 2008
    Melbourne, Australia
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    KL - massive for you hun

  2. #2
    maybebaby23 Guest

    Sounds like quite an evening baby. If it wasn't a lighter, then what caused the fire?

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Mar 2008
    California
    1,665

    Can anyone tell me whether or not on a O strip, if there's 2 lines, but the second line is lighter than the control line, that means negative, right? It also says best time to test is between 11-3, and 5-10, and I did mine at 3:30... should I do a second one later tonight, or just wait until tomorrow? Thanks!

  4. #4
    ByTheOcean Guest

    Hi Jen805, I haven't posted much on the boards at all except after my miscarriage, but can answer this one I think!

    If the second line is lighter, you haven't had your LH surge yet. The LH surge usually occurs early in the morning (ie in the hours after midnight), and it can take up to 8 hours for the LH levels to show in the urine sample, which is why its best to test during the day (the ones I use say between 11 and 3). If I had your result, I would probably test at 11 tomorrow morning (that said, I am impatient and this month when I had a lighter line I did one later that night - still light).

    What usually happens to me is I have two days where the line is light (so 'negative') and then after that I'll get a definite 'positive'. I'm sure there's no science to it, but I kind of take the lighter lines as an early warning system that the LH surge is a-comin'.

    Hope this helps!
    Last edited by ByTheOcean; September 5th, 2008 at 05:40 PM. : edited for bad typing...

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Jun 2008
    New Jersey, USA
    192

    I'm in tears.. sobbing.. NAME IT! !I'm BLEEDING!!! OMG NOOO.. OMG my 3rd miscarriage??.. No.. I can't.. I can't with this!! OMG NOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!

    Someone make it stop!! PLEASE!!

    I called my 2 best friends and they don;t answer!!.. What do I do??.. hubby is not home yet and I have not one red cent!!.. DAMN it WHY ME???? I want this baby so bad!! I worked so hard!!!

    Guess go to ER....

  6. #6
    ByTheOcean Guest

    Hi Ruthie - how incredibly scary for you. Take a deep breath. Try to focus on what you need to do RIGHT NOW. I suggest that you get someone to drive you to the ER - you're too upset to take yourself. Try to breathe deeply and slowly. This may be the bleeding that lots of women experience. Yes it may be a miscarriage, but lets cross that bridge if we get there.

    Sorry I'm not one of the regulars here, but I am praying for you...

  7. #7
    ByTheOcean Guest

    Ruthie - meant to ask - do you have any pain?

  8. #8
    Registered User

    Mar 2008
    California
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    BytheOcean! Thanks so much for the info on the O strips!

  9. #9
    Registered User

    Jul 2008
    Sydney NSW
    66

    Ruthie - OMG we are all for you, don't stress too much yet. If you haven't had any extreme pain you may be ok. Get yourself to the ER now!!! and we are all here for you

  10. #10
    Registered User

    Aug 2008
    Sydney
    125

    Ruthie

    Just wanted to say I am for you and try to remember that whatever happens it is out of your control and that it is nothing that you have done.

    It is normal for some women to bleed during their pregnancy so try to stay clam until you get some answers. I know its a hard time but please dont give up. I am here if you need someone to talk to.