thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ September 2008

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Aug 2008
    Sydney
    125

    Hi everyone,

    Tocarra I hope everything is okay sweetie. I check everyday to see if you have posted anything. Saying lots of prayers for you.

    Fificlaire Sorry the lemons didn't work but the FS say that the more m/s you have the better. It just means your hormones are going crazy and that the pregnancy is progressing. I can imagine how scary it must be for you. Sending you lots of

    Van Good luck with your IUI. Sounds like tonight is the night Hope you get your BFP this month.

    Emmykate Hi when I had my two miscarriages the o/b at the hospital said it would be fine to ttc again after the bleeding stopped.

    KL and Chyan Sending you lots of . Your HCG levels were great. This one looks like a sticky jellybean :woot:

    Ruthie Glad to hear everything went well over the weekend and the bleeding stopped. Good luck at your docs appointment hope everything goes great looking forward to reading you post and hearing that everything is fine.

    Babyfever Sending you lots of and that you get your BFP.

    Joey I agree with babyfever and would say your 6DPO. I would get a BT done just to check that way you dont have to worry about it all weekend. Good luck.

    As for me DH had his second semen test yesterday to check his DNA fragmentation as last time it was above 30 which is pretty bad. I have my u/s on friday to check that everything is okay after my op to remove the subseptum. Then we have our FS appointment next wednesday to get the results. This week is going to go sooooo slow. that we get great results.

    Anyone else I missed sorry. Sending you all and

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Oct 2007
    Hunter Valley, NSW
    624

    Tocarra - my thoughts are with you. I'd ask for another u/s before your procedure just to make sure, remember a lot of women do have a bleed and go on to have a H&H little bub. I do so hope that you are able to come back at some point and TTC again. Let your heart and body heal and remember we are always here for you. We'll try really hard to clear this thread out for you.

    Ruthie - all the best with your appointment on Wed. Hope everything goes just the way you want it to.

    Leyza - for you. Please have yourself checked.

    Fifi - can you send DH over. (make sure he brings a piece of cheesecake for me) then you can have him straight back

    Krystie - give that belly a rub for me.

    Van - hope that little egg meets Dh's swimmers while your having your rest. Enjoy your relax session.

    to anyone else i've missed. (i'd better get back to work now - the natives are getting restless - it's almost time to go outside and play)

  3. #3

    Dec 2007
    USA, Kansas
    824

    Toccara-My heart goes out to you darling! I agree if you havn't had an U/s done since the bleeding I would get one just to make sure Please take care of yourself we will miss you. I really sorry your going through all this babe. Your more than welcome to come in and post anytime darling if you want too, we will be here for you.

    Joey-I would if I was you go ahead and get a progesterone check just to make sure you Oed but I'm pretty sure your around 6DPO ATM. Let your Nice 1 1/2 week wait continue. Hope you get your BFP very soon..

    Tam-Did they say if there was anything Dh can be on to help with that??? Geeze, I'm sorry thats going on. Bless your DH heart and yours as well. I hope this week goes by faster for you...

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Aug 2008
    Cairns QLD
    138

    Oh Toccara my thoughts are with you at this time, its just horrible isn't it and just not fair!!! rest up and take care and I fully understand giving your body a break for a while.

    Ruthie - goodluck at docs appointmen Im sure all will be fine and bub is growing well and is nice and snug in your womb...

    Fificlaire - have you tried ginger tea??? it can help with nausea, or even a few drops of lavender oil on your pillow when sleeping can help.

    Babyfever -

    Tam - goodluck with Docs appt and lots of to you

    to everyone else today have a fantastic day....

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Mar 2008
    California
    1,665

    Toccara--Oh, honey... I'm so, so sorry! I'm also questioning if you've had another u/s--and what about BT's? Have they actually confirmed that you've m/c'd? Wish that I could be there for you... sending you the biggest hugs... take care of yourself.


    Ruthie--Wishing you the best of luck for your appt. tomorrow! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your little one!



    fifi--Will your DH make me a cheesecake? I like regular, strawberry, or pineapple!



    joey--What's the deal with the dashes going from the 14th-16th on your chart? How come it skipped the 15th??? Could that temp just have been a little off--did anything unusual happen that morning? Because if that temp were just a little higher, I think it would've given you your coverline on the 16?



    Van--Wishing you the best of luck with your IUI! Please little go find that egg!!

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Mar 2008
    California
    1,665

    Hey Krystie, I thought you were giving up your thermometer???? You silly little temping addict!



    Tam--:goodluck2: with Friday's u/s! Hope your wait for next week flies by!



    mollycat! Is your thermometer stuck on the same numbers, or what? Any niggles yet? Saying lots of for you!



    Oops, gotta be at a meeting at the school in 7 minutes! Talk soon!

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Aug 2008
    Sydney
    125

    Babyfever The FS put him on menevit to help with his sperm its kinda the same as elevit for females put for sperm. Hopefully that will fix the problem.

    Mannie, joey and jen Thanks for the well wishes greatly appreciated.

  8. #8
    Registered User

    May 2008
    U.S.A
    186

    Unhappy

    I thank you all so much for being so hopeful but I'm sure I'm m/c'ing so I'm not going give myself false hope I have been bleeding heavy like regular af and when I wipe its clots there they are going to do an u/s before hand I'm just ready for 2morrow to come and go I'm so hurt and my body still acting as if I'm pregnant does not help ...

  9. #9
    Registered User

    May 2008
    U.S.A
    186

    Unhappy

    I thank you all so much for being so hopeful but I'm sure I'm m/c'ing so I'm not going give myself false hope I have been bleeding heavy like regular af and when I wipe its clots there they are going to do an u/s before hand I'm just ready for 2morrow to come and go I'm so hurt and my body still acting as if I'm pregnant does not help ...

  10. #10
    Registered User

    Aug 2008
    Sydney
    125

    Tocarra I am sorry for your pain my heart goes out to you. I'm meant to be leaving for work but had to check one more time b4 I left and seen you post and had to reply. I understand about you just wanting it to be over. I felt the same way it such a hard time.

    Good luck at your u/s tomorrow I wish I could be there with you. I dont know much about your history, have you been seeing a FS and had testing done for the previous miscarriages? I myself have had two miscarriages both at 5 1/2 weeks and have been going to miscarriage management at Sydney IVF. They have done blood test, u/s and laparoscopy and hysteroscopy. They have also done extensive testing on DH sperm. Anyway your them welcome to PM me and I can tell you all about the tests it you havent already been through them. Also there is a sticky on the forum page with all the lists of test they do at SIVF for miscarriages.

  11. #11
    Registered User

    May 2008
    U.S.A
    186

    Unhappy

    I thank you all so much for being so hopeful but I'm sure I'm m/c'ing so I'm not going give myself false hope I have been bleeding heavy like regular af and when I wipe its clots there they are going to do an u/s before hand I'm just ready for 2morrow to come and go I'm so hurt and my body still acting as if I'm pregnant does not help ...

  12. #12
    BellyBelly Member

    May 2008
    NSW
    696

    Tocarra, Sweetie. Yes, whether things turn out for the better (or sadly, possibly the worse), you just want to get through it. I know what a toll this is taking on you emotionally. Please feel free to PM me. I realise no amount of cyberhugging will help you, but you really are in my thoughts. I am giving you one anyway

    If you can, please have an ultrasound before the D&C...

    Like Tam I have done the Miscarriage Investigation Program through SIVF. If things do not work out I can also give you any info you might need, even about testing through your local dr (which I also did).

    Take care and please look after yourself as best as you can
    xxx
    Last edited by Where there's hope; September 10th, 2008 at 03:56 PM. : typo

  13. #13
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    573

    Toccara50......HUGE hugs to you hun...... You do what is right for you right now...... When you feel that you want to TTC again then we will be here for you.... At this rate... I will still be in here so I will keep a seat warm for you

    Nuff of Nuff Nuff Chyan.......Not to be again hun.... AF greeted me this morning..... Also got DH s tests back with a resounding 0%...... hmmm could it be worse... can you have minus percentages. FS said the only way is ICSI.... I will know more when I see him on the 19th. Having said that he still wants me on Clomid from Friday and then scan the following Friday... I m sure he has something in mind... just not sure what at the moment.

    Pill Chyan...... Waiting for those new HCG levels.... Aunty Angels going to be keepin a close eye on little Chyan... Ohhh and guess what ... Little Chyan wont be steppin out into this world on the 19th of May..... Aunty Angel has had little words.... Little Chyan now wants to come out into this world on the 18th May because that is Aunty Angel and PCL1805 s Birthday.... Little Chyan is looking forward to be a May 18th Birthday Buddy
    Last edited by Baby Angels; September 10th, 2008 at 04:19 PM.