Babyfever - Hope you get yourselves a little . Thanks for the advice on the chart. I agree with you.
Vanaithi - Congrats on your successful IUI. Glad to hear you are having a relaxing day. those find your little eggie. Take care.
Toccara - Oh hun . Take care honey. We'll miss you.
Tam - Thanks, I think I will make the change, and will also get a BT on Friday morning (so long as they do a couple of hours turn around like I beleive they do, other wise I'll go Thursday morning). Thanks. I really hope the results are what you are hoping for.
AFM - Been having some very slight cramping today so far. Implantation perhaps Other than that, a little moody, but just taking it easy at school today.
Take care everyone.
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Toccara-My heart goes out to you darling! I agree if you havn't had an U/s done since the bleeding I would get one just to make sure Please take care of yourself we will miss you. I really sorry your going through all this babe. Your more than welcome to come in and post anytime darling if you want too, we will be here for you.
Joey-I would if I was you go ahead and get a progesterone check just to make sure you Oed but I'm pretty sure your around 6DPO ATM. Let your Nice 1 1/2 week wait continue. Hope you get your BFP very soon..
Tam-Did they say if there was anything Dh can be on to help with that??? Geeze, I'm sorry thats going on. Bless your DH heart and yours as well. I hope this week goes by faster for you...
Oh Toccara my thoughts are with you at this time, its just horrible isn't it and just not fair!!! rest up and take care and I fully understand giving your body a break for a while.
Ruthie - goodluck at docs appointmen Im sure all will be fine and bub is growing well and is nice and snug in your womb...
Fificlaire - have you tried ginger tea??? it can help with nausea, or even a few drops of lavender oil on your pillow when sleeping can help.
Toccara--Oh, honey... I'm so, so sorry! I'm also questioning if you've had another u/s--and what about BT's? Have they actually confirmed that you've m/c'd? Wish that I could be there for you... sending you the biggest hugs... take care of yourself.
Ruthie--Wishing you the best of luck for your appt. tomorrow! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your little one!
fifi--Will your DH make me a cheesecake? I like regular, strawberry, or pineapple!
joey--What's the deal with the dashes going from the 14th-16th on your chart? How come it skipped the 15th??? Could that temp just have been a little off--did anything unusual happen that morning? Because if that temp were just a little higher, I think it would've given you your coverline on the 16?
Van--Wishing you the best of luck with your IUI! Please little go find that egg!!
Babyfever The FS put him on menevit to help with his sperm its kinda the same as elevit for females put for sperm. Hopefully that will fix the problem.
Mannie, joey and jen Thanks for the well wishes greatly appreciated.
I thank you all so much for being so hopeful but I'm sure I'm m/c'ing so I'm not going give myself false hope I have been bleeding heavy like regular af and when I wipe its clots there they are going to do an u/s before hand I'm just ready for 2morrow to come and go I'm so hurt and my body still acting as if I'm pregnant does not help ...
I thank you all so much for being so hopeful but I'm sure I'm m/c'ing so I'm not going give myself false hope I have been bleeding heavy like regular af and when I wipe its clots there they are going to do an u/s before hand I'm just ready for 2morrow to come and go I'm so hurt and my body still acting as if I'm pregnant does not help ...
Tocarra I am sorry for your pain my heart goes out to you. I'm meant to be leaving for work but had to check one more time b4 I left and seen you post and had to reply. I understand about you just wanting it to be over. I felt the same way it such a hard time.
Good luck at your u/s tomorrow I wish I could be there with you. I dont know much about your history, have you been seeing a FS and had testing done for the previous miscarriages? I myself have had two miscarriages both at 5 1/2 weeks and have been going to miscarriage management at Sydney IVF. They have done blood test, u/s and laparoscopy and hysteroscopy. They have also done extensive testing on DH sperm. Anyway your them welcome to PM me and I can tell you all about the tests it you havent already been through them. Also there is a sticky on the forum page with all the lists of test they do at SIVF for miscarriages.
I thank you all so much for being so hopeful but I'm sure I'm m/c'ing so I'm not going give myself false hope I have been bleeding heavy like regular af and when I wipe its clots there they are going to do an u/s before hand I'm just ready for 2morrow to come and go I'm so hurt and my body still acting as if I'm pregnant does not help ...
Tocarra, Sweetie. Yes, whether things turn out for the better (or sadly, possibly the worse), you just want to get through it. I know what a toll this is taking on you emotionally. Please feel free to PM me. I realise no amount of cyberhugging will help you, but you really are in my thoughts. I am giving you one anyway
If you can, please have an ultrasound before the D&C...
Like Tam I have done the Miscarriage Investigation Program through SIVF. If things do not work out I can also give you any info you might need, even about testing through your local dr (which I also did).
Take care and please look after yourself as best as you can
xxx
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Toccara50......HUGE hugs to you hun...... You do what is right for you right now...... When you feel that you want to TTC again then we will be here for you.... At this rate... I will still be in here so I will keep a seat warm for you
Nuff of Nuff Nuff Chyan.......Not to be again hun.... AF greeted me this morning..... Also got DH s tests back with a resounding 0%...... hmmm could it be worse... can you have minus percentages. FS said the only way is ICSI.... I will know more when I see him on the 19th. Having said that he still wants me on Clomid from Friday and then scan the following Friday... I m sure he has something in mind... just not sure what at the moment.
Pill Chyan...... Waiting for those new HCG levels.... Aunty Angels going to be keepin a close eye on little Chyan... Ohhh and guess what ... Little Chyan wont be steppin out into this world on the 19th of May..... Aunty Angel has had little words.... Little Chyan now wants to come out into this world on the 18th May because that is Aunty Angel and PCL1805 s Birthday.... Little Chyan is looking forward to be a May 18th Birthday Buddy
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Toccara I am so sorry. I know there is nothing i can say or do - i was in your position only 2 weeks ago. Take as much time and personal space as you need to grieve. It must be a very difficult time for you. I am thinking of you
Thanks everyone for your advice re: when it is ok to start TTC again after m/c. Hubby and I are not exactly going all out there to , rather we are just following our natural urges . If it happens, it happens. Having said that i have been feeling kinda yuk the last 24 hours or so. Nothing seems to want to kill the nausea... we are hopeful that maybe this is a sign.. but that could be wishful thinking.. although i have heard that you can be very fertile straight after a m/c. We'll just have to wait and see.
Babyfever - Going for a prog / hCG BT on Friday early morning, so will be posting as soon as I can to let you know the results. Should find out just after lunch.
Jen - The dashes are cause I ticked 'discard' that day. Awake at 3am to go to toilet; Intercourse at 4am - no ejectulation; Back to sleep at 5am. So I figured that my temp at 6.30am wouldn't have been accurate. I would think that all that moving around (and not having enough rest to let it go back) would make it higher than it actually should be. So I think that would have been my dip that day, then O on the following day (CD16).
AFM - Nothing new. Feeling preg though. Don't know why. Just am. Am being very carful and protective of my tummy too, like when kids come to hug me, I am turning sideways. Will see what my temp does in the morning and then probably override it so that my O date is CD16. Thanks to those of you who have checked out my chart.
I did go to the Er last night and ended up seeing a lovely doctor who was actually about 6-7 months pregnant herself, hopefully a good sign. But gee I was sad seeing her in all her pregnant glory. The good thing about having a pregnant doctor is the dignity and respect in which she treated me. I am basically having a threatened miscarriage. This means I have to rest as much as possible, virtually impossible with three children already, but I am doing my best. I have an u/s scheduled for 10am tomorrow, so I am am anxiously waiting for the results from it. The bleeding has turned into brown goop ( sorry, tmi), before it was quite a fresh red swipe. I am having mild cramps, really mild and I know it probably does not indicate much with bubba's status, but I have done two more pregnancy tests and the positive pregnancy line is the darkest I have ever had with any of my previous pregnancies, even the twins. So fingers crossed and lots of prayers and maybe I might have a miracle. Thankyou so much for all your thoughts, prayers and support. It's wonderful to feel uplifted in the face of such uncertainty.
And Toccara, my heart goes out to you. I'm so sorry for you. I completely understand that you want to put off TTC. If I lose this bubba, I am putting it off too for a while. There's only so much a heart can take over a matter of months. Lots of hugs
I am thinking of you
Take care hon. I am for you that all comes up positive. The BFP sounds great, and also the fact that you had a preg doctor. I hope DH will do as much house work for you as possible. Do you have anyone that can mind the kids for a couple of days so you can really relax? Or perhaps someone that can come and live with you for a little while??
Looking forward to logging on tomorrow and seeing that everything is a-ok with you!
Toccara- I am really sorry i know nothing i can say can make you feel any better. Can understand how you feel about waiting to ttc again felt exactly the same last year after my second loss in 4 months. Sending you lots of and
. Thanks for the advice on the chart. I agree with you.
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find your little eggie. Take care.
. Take care honey. We'll miss you.
Please take care of yourself we will miss you. I really sorry your going through all this babe. Your more than welcome to come in and post anytime darling if you want too, we will be here for you.
I like regular, strawberry, or pineapple! 
Could that temp just have been a little off--did anything unusual happen that morning? Because if that temp were just a little higher, I think it would've given you your coverline on the 16?
mollycat! Is your thermometer stuck on the same numbers, or what? 
, rather we are just following our natural urges 
. If it happens, it happens. Having said that i have been feeling kinda yuk 
the last 24 hours or so. Nothing seems to want to kill the nausea... we are hopeful that maybe this is a sign.. but that could be wishful thinking.. although i have heard that you can be very fertile straight after a m/c. 
We'll just have to wait and see.
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