Ruthie- OMG! I'm soo sorry darling. I cannot beleive that you have been through this so much. I understand the fact you keep asking why does it keep happening and how you could get answers. Like I said I'm really sorry that you lost your darling baby. And, I feel you on your birthday beeing Crappy. Big once again.
Tam-Sorry that your U/s tech was like that I would have been annoyed by it. I hope FS can find some answers for you soon.
babymericals-Hello, And welcome to BB. Sorry to hear about your losses hun. I hope you get your BFP and sticky bean very soon.
ATM- I'm 3 DPO
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Hey girls just letting you know we have been having tornados today and ATM its still going on. I have pictures too.. I had my friend from VA make a comp to comp voice call she heard my sirens.. Were okay atm sirnes still going off, The tornado was actully ontop of my APTs but didnt drop down.. We have more headed out way. I called my EX boyfriend and his parents to get to the ground its headed there way right now.
Tam--Sorry to hear about your annoying u/s tech! You would think they would at least know the names of the body parts that they're looking at! Good luck on Wed. with your FS appt--hope you finally get all your questions answered!
mollycat--Aww, sorry! ....My oath to you: I do hereby solemnly swear to never again forget to engage your anti-AF force field!! Pinky promise! Go ahead and blame me.... I'm used to it from Angel! lol... ( Angel!)
babymiracles-- I'm so sorry to hear of your loss only a week ago You can only O once your hcg levels have returned to normal--have you had any BT's done to check yours? I pray that you find comfort and peace here with us... please know that there's no right or wrong way to grieve... there's no time frame within which you need to feel "over it". You're always welcome to vent, cry, scream, ask questions--we all know what you're feeling and the thought process that seems to play over and over again in your mind... we've all been there, and we all know how difficult and heartbreaking it is to lose an angel baby. I look forward to getting to know you!
plc--Thanks! Hope the temps behave and keep going up! Thanks so much for staying up late to chat! It was such an awesome surprise to log on and see all you girls in there waiting for me! Big and bellyrubs! Looooooove the new belly pic--it's so cute!!
Have just Found out i've had i Missed M/C...what nexted?
hi I've jut found out today that i lost my little buby, i was meant to be 9wks 3 days today but the ultrasound said i was only 7wks, no heartbeat . Me and my partner are heartbroken as this was our first and i've have recently be told i have PCOS.i'm greatful to have had the chance and look forward to trying again,but i was wondering wheather any of u guys could tell me when its safe to start trying again, or is it different for everyone? i'm booked in to have a D/C in the nexted couple of days thanks for listening hope to ear for anyone with any comments any would be welcomed
thanks
Ruthie--Thinking of you today So sorry, hon, I wish I knew the right thing to say... I wish I could go back and fix everything for you! I'm so glad to hear you aren't giving up... just heard someone on Oprah say "Your past does not define your future" and it made me think of you... I have such faith that it will happen for you, so stay strong and keep your faith, even tho I know you aren't feeling it now! Sending you the biggest possible
Fab 2/3 Chyan's--You girls are absolutely the BEST!! You all made my day when I logged on and saw all three of you in chat! I thought for sure I was either dreaming or my eyes were seeing things! Thanks, Nuff, for hanging out at work for a chat--2 more weeks without internet at home??? Grrr! Still haven't had a chance to read your blog, but I've been so busy today--was at the school from 8-4! But I promise, I haven't forgotten, and I will get to it! Krystie--lots of bellyrubs and *kiss* *kiss*
Toccara--Thinking of you! Hope you're ok, love.
Babyfever--Ooh, tornadoes...scary! Stay safe!
Easha, joey, Chappas, megsmum, WTH, Van, dellydoo, Jade, hannah, babbs, & mannie for you all!!
Thanks, WTH!!! I do know what you mean, but don't think there's any way you could jinx me!
An unlimited and unending (is that redundant? lol...) supply of for my super-duper Krystie Chyan, Rachel (where've you been, girl?), fifi, larz, pbstar, tutmae, tina, plc, AJC, Katiegirl, Leyza, & nickster
Oops, almost forgot to shout out a to Emmykate!
smilanatu--It's FRIDAY!!!!! :woot: Thanks for the e-mails! I think I have a couple more for you, but I'll have to go thru my e-mails first! Hope you have a great weekend!
I just wanted to say thank you everyone for such kind words and thoughts. It really does mean a lot, and although I wish no one had to go through this experience it helps to talk to other people who understand what I am going through.
Also thanks to those who answered my questions about ovulating after miscarriage. I see fertility specialist next thursday so maybe they will start doing some hcg measurements then. Last one was when I found I had had lost my baby - when it had gone done from nearly 10000 to 4000 in under 48 hours. Still getting some bad pains - particularly right sided lasting anywhere between 4 and 12 hours a day - did anyone else have same experience after a D & C? I guess it has only been 5 days so am wondering if that is normal.
On a positive note, I should say that after the horrible initial hospital experience with the admitting nurse, once my doctor came to see me before the procedure and until I went home the care and compassion was wonderful. My ob/gyn has the most wonderful bedside manner, and i had a really lovely midwife sit and talk to me for ages in recovery whilst I was blubbering away. So although there will always be those medical people lacking compassion/tack - there are also so many out there that are worth there weight in gold.
Ruthie - you are in my heart and thoughts today
Looking forward to getting to know you all a bit more on this site.
xx
Me (37) DH (50)
IVF 1 cycle - BFP 5th September 2008 (6 weeks 4 days)
I used to sing this to my little angels when I knew they were going but were still there before I "delivered" them. I still sing it now. My thoughts are with you
Fly
Fly, fly little wing
Fly beyond imagining
The softest cloud, the whitest dove
Upon the wing of Heaven's love
Past the planets and the stars
Leave this lonely world of ours
Escape the sorrow and the pain
And fly again
Fly, fly precious one
Your endless journey has begun
Take your gentle happiness
Far too beautiful for this
Cross over to the other shore
There is peace forevermore
But hold this memory bittersweet
Until we meet
Fly, fly do not fear
Don't waste a breath, dont shed a tear
Your heart is pure, your soul is free
Be on your way, dont wait for me
Above the universe you'll climb
On beyond the hands of time
The moon will rise, the sun will set
But I won't forget
Fly, fly little wing
Fly where only angels sing
Fly away, the time is right
Go now, find the light.
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OMG! I'm soo sorry darling. I cannot beleive that you have been through this so much. I understand the fact you keep asking why does it keep happening and how you could get answers. Like I said I'm really sorry that you lost your darling baby. And, I feel you on your birthday beeing Crappy. Big
Good luck on Wed. with your FS appt--hope you finally get all your questions answered!
Go ahead and blame me.... I'm used to it from Angel! lol... (
Angel!)
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss only a week ago
You can only O once your hcg levels have returned to normal--have you had any BT's done to check yours? I pray that you find comfort and peace here with us... please know that there's no right or wrong way to grieve... there's no time frame within which you need to feel "over it". You're always welcome to vent, cry, scream, ask questions--we all know what you're feeling and the thought process that seems to play over and over again in your mind... we've all been there, and we all know how difficult and heartbreaking it is to lose an angel baby. I look forward to getting to know you!
Thanks so much for staying up late to chat! It was such an awesome surprise to log on and see all you girls in there waiting for me! Big
Have just Found out i've had i Missed M/C...what nexted?
*kiss* *kiss*
Easha, joey, Chappas, megsmum, WTH, Van, dellydoo, Jade, hannah, babbs, & mannie
for you all!!
Thanks, WTH!!! I do know what you mean, but don't think there's any way you could jinx me!
for my super-duper Krystie Chyan, Rachel (where've you been, girl?), fifi, larz, pbstar, tutmae, tina, plc, AJC, Katiegirl, Leyza, & nickster
5th September 2008 (6 weeks 4 days)
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