thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ September 2008

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  1. #1
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    Mar 2008
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    mollycat--Your dad sounds amazingly strong! I wish him many more years to come!



    babymiracles--:goodluck2: with your FS appt. next week. I'm so relieved to hear your OB was so compassionate after your horrible initial experience. Those lacking compassion and tact just shouldn't be in the medical profession--even if it is only at the front desk!



    Super big for my Fab 2/3 Chyan's!!

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    Ruthie-- I wish I could mend your broken heart It breaks my heart to know that you're sad and in pain! I wish you the best with next week's lab results. I also hope you manage to have a happy b-day on Sunday in spite of everything! Lot's of love to you and your much-loved angel baby!



    jenushka--Just wanted you to know that I'm thinking of you!

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    Jun 2008
    New Jersey, USA
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    Thank you Jen. ♥

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    May 2008
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    Unhappy

    Ruthie I'm so very sorry you have also lost your bub I wish all the best in ttc again and I pray this is your last lost I would have more to say but having lost my bub this week too my mind is gone I have been crying everyday ...

    Jen I read all your post to me and it means a lot to me I just need some time to get my mind 2gather and heal the tears are still coming everyday ...

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    Jun 2008
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    Oh Toccara... you too???... we can grieve our babies together. I feel so empty today.. I don't want to go out I just want to keep crying. Oh Toccarra.. I know this is not of any help... WHY??... WHY us??. Why do these things happen.. to you, to me, to all of us Angel mommies??... I want to give you encouragement but I don;t have the strength to do so.. just know that we are in this together and that I feel your pain ... I'm here at this with you.. I can't TTC again till after 2 or 3 months.. and I need to see a special doctor to help me "stay " pregnant and have a live baby.
    I am here for you.. and we can grieve together. I had a D&C yesterday and I was put to sleep cuz I couldn't handle the thought I WAS Shaking and sobbing. I preferred it that way. Am all campy today and bleeding... I feel so empty, it's so hard to see that my bumps is gone and the thought that I am not pregnant anymore.
    I am here with you through this...


    "So painful to remember, Too precious to forget"

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    Ruthie & ToccaraI'm so sorry this happened darling. I understand that it hurts bad to feel so empty. I lost a baby at 19 weeks & It was so hard after being able to feel kicks and having a belly to all the sudden loose it and feel so empty. And to feel that with the last pregnancy I Would have been 14 weeks pregnant on my 21st Bday which is on Friday the 19th. Big I really hope that they can get you pregnant and keep you pregnant. I have you guys in my prayers and hope that you have a beatiful baby to hold soon. I know it will never replace the ones you lost.

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    Oct 2007
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    Ruthie & Tocarra - I wish I could give you both these in person. Please remember I am thinking of you at this time.

    Abbey - sometimes just that diagnosis helps so much. I know when I was finally diagnosed, it answered lots of questions for me. PCOS isn't fun and games, and it is possible to fall pg, just makes it a little bit harder. My gyno diagnosed me after my gp told me that I was just overweight and needed to lose some weight. (I've never seen that GP since - went to another one who referred me to the gyno - the gyno diagnosed me by taking one look at me and then sending me for tests to confirm). I found a low GI diet and lots of exercise helped me to lose weight (I did lots of walking). I've started walking again which I hadn't for a few months to try and knock off a few more kilos and hopefully fall pg again. My gyno also put me straight on metformin and i've tried clomid and tamoxifen to help with ovulation (although I do O by myself).

    Jen - thanks for that. Dad was diagnosed with cardiomyothopy (i think that's how it's spelt) when I was sixteen, he was given only a few years to live, so he's done great. He also has early dementia but he and mum are still living at home (they're 80 and 78) with very little outside help.



    I think it's time to sprinkle some more around.

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    Jan 2008
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    Mollycat - big hugs to you and your family - you must be a chip off the ol' block!

    Ruthie & Toccara - my thoughts and prayers are especially with you both. Please know we are here for you.