TTC after Miscarriage or Loss ~ March 08

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[Trac73]

Hello everyone

Thanks Canary we are also hoping for a speedy recovery for my dad. He starts his first lot of treatment on Tuesday so i think that is why i am more upset about everything at the moment. This whole cancer thing has happened so quickly. It was discover 3 weeks prior to my wedding in August last year and we had hoped the operation took it all but it hasn't and now it is growing at nearly double in the last 3 months so keeping fingers crossed that as he says this gets the little b@@@@@ds. Hope i haven't offended anyone.
Wow so many of us have AF at the moment our cycles are so similiar lets hope for lots of BFP this cycle.

Hug:hugs: and for you all
Trac

[Baby Angels]

Just sending Baby Dust for the new thread... will be back to post as soon as I have a few hours to read through them all first.

[bettyboop]

sorry i was a wet blanket about the gender swaying thing , i do under stand what you are saying, life is so hard for me now as i am now infertile no af for nearly 5 months and no garntee that we will ever be able to have children , after we have the opp for my ashermans , hoping they can fix it , or learning to except no more babies .

[ll80]

Well still no AF so I don't know what's going on there. Just that one day of light spotting at CD 27. A first for me.
Hopefully I can make it to the doctors this week and get the results of my blood test.

So damn hot, seriously considering moving somewhere cooler or installing the mother of all air conditioning systems.

Trac wishing you and your family all the very best. I hope things go as best they can.

Lots of to all those BFP's nice to see so many lately.

Hiya to everyone else I hope your weekends were good!!

..Laura

[Katiegirl]

Bettyboop - i just wanted to send you a big hug. You don't have to apologise. I can not even begin to understand how frustrating and upsetting your situation must be. If you can't vent here, than where can you vent? So please no apologies and you are certainly not a wet blanket. I hope you get some good news soon. When are you having the operation? I will be keeping you in my thoughts are this must be a difficult time for you.

Would love to say hi to everyone else but have to get back - just wanted to say hi to Betty.

Tina- sorry that AF is visiting. Big hug to you as well.

[tina_k]

well, im adjusting to the fact that i will not be having a november baby .... xmas baby, here i come!

trac: all the best for your dad
betty: praying for you to have the blessing of a little one again soon...
laura: fingers xed for no AF!
katiegirl: thanks for your kind words, hope your having a nice weekend away..

hello to everyone else

[Mel A]

Went to see my OB yesterday after my M/C In Feb.
He gave me 1 pescrption for Primulot (to be used if AF doesn't turn up in next 45 days)
1 pescription, with 5 repeats for clomid (7 cycles worth) I'm on 100mg.
and 7, day 21 blood test referals.

He then said I could book in to see him in 7 months. Or I could be all optimistic and not book because I'd have to book in eairler when I get a BFP. (well he didn't say BFP but you get the drift)

So I'm crossing fingers for AF to turn up in the next 2-3 weeks, then we can start all over again.

cheers all

[Trac73]

Hey Everyone

Tempus - Thanks for your prays for my dad. I am really looking forward to seeing him today. He has now had one weeks worth of treatment so we have 6 weeks to go. I too am hoping to start BDing tonight. I really am aiming to BD every other day in hope for a BFP for when my dad finishes his treatment how nice would that be?

Danielsgirl - My mum bought me a pendant when i ahd my first m/c back in 2001. I carry it everywhere with me and have revisited in with both my recent m/c. I find it special and a reminder of my precious babies. As time goes by i have found that i have not needed to look at it as much but when i need my babies near me i look at it and kiss it many times.

Brockstar - Congrats i am hoping this is the new kick off we need for more BFP here.

Katiegirl - I agree you never think you would talk to your mother about BD but when things like this happen it seems to become a topic of conversation. My mothers advice to me was to BD everyday because surely then you cannot miss.....but who has the energy to BD everyday after working and chasing after a 3 year old... i surely don't

Well off to pick up my beautiful daughter from Daycare so we can make a cake for Poppy and Granma.

Take Care Hello to all the girls i have missed
Trac

[STARRYSKY]

hi everyone!!
welcome to the newbies, hope your stay is short and sweet.
sorry I havent been around but I am just soooooooo tired, working and coping with the ALL DAY sickness is just not good, anyway, had the day off today, just couldnt face going in today.
I still havent booked in for my ultrasound, I know this will sound silly, but I am just too scared, I dont think I can cope with it, as I found out that my last pregnancy was over at my first us.
Some of you girls may remember beaksie, she now has a BFP to add to our list!!

heres some more good luck all.
xxx
p.s.
apparantley I am 7 wks and 6 days, according to the doc.

[Jodsan]

Hi everyone, just been popping in for quick ones until after "O" day.

Just wanted to say congratulations Brockstar!!!!!!! Sending you heaps of

Got my GF's funeral tomorrow, looking forward to an end to this loooooong week, then next week I'll be in the 2WW, yippee. Really looking forward to the journey this time (can someone please remind me of that when I am thinking about POAS at 7DPO!).

Oh, I haven't said congrats to Angel yet, well done with the .8kg, that's great! They always say slow and steady is the best way. My mum did weight watchers and they recommended only .5kg per week, it took her a year but she lost 25kgs and has kept it off for about 2 years now (apparently bc she did it the right way).

Take care everyone!!!

[Brockstar]

Jodsan, will be thinking of you tomorrow.

Danielsgirl, I bought a charm from lafemmebelle.com or something like that. It's a small gold heart with 2 tiny footprints on 1 side and LOVE on the other. Just in the process of buying a long enough chain so I can slip it over my head. It's 14c gold plated, so I want to preserve it the best I can.

Angel, good work on the weight loss! Everyone has said it: slow is best. My OH and I did Sureslim a few years back, and whilst we lost lots of weight, because the loss was so rapid, it all came back on when we stopped.

Starrysky, I don't blame you for being a little apprehensive about booking your u/s. Revisiting something that was so emotionally painful last time is a huge thing. I am sure that you will have a very clear moment when all your stars are aligned and you will make that call. One small step at a time. Remind me of this when it's my turn, will you?

Trac73 - how was your visit with your dad today? I hope that he is feeling as well as can be expected.

Mel A - here's hoping for :AF: for you soon...

to all the other lovely, supporting ladies in the thread. It's only a short visit tonight, have one very sick little boy on my hands. I think it's gonna be a loooonnnngggg night

Have appt to see my OB tomorrow. I only wanted to chat to him on the phone for 1 minute this afternoon, but his receptionist insisted that I book an appt to see him instead (mainly due to m/c). I feel a bit of a goose because I know he's just gonna tell me to come back in 2 weeks and then hopefully we'll see something. Who knows? He may do a surprise u/s - you never know what we'll find! That is of course, if I am 5 weeks.