TTC after Miscarriage or Loss ~ NOV/DEC 07

[littlescottishboy]

Annabelle - man, i totally echo your rant about everyone being preg, and especially the bit about your sis - that is exactly the same in my family. She has never had a m/c and her pregs have been always so easy. Aaaaaargh. Not fair!

Hayley - so sorry hun about your news. Hope you can find all the support and friendship you ned in here to help you through.

Big hugs to everyone else.

[HayleyW]

Hi ladies

Thanks for your welcomes. Can I just vent here please? Ive already vented to my DH and my other girlfriend who is having problems TTC but still feel like I need to get it off my chest.

Well, I finally called my girlfriend today, the one who is 12 weeks pregnant after being off the pill for 2 months. And so after all the are you oks etc she proceded to tell me that I should take a break and relax and then it will happen. She told me that I have been consumed with TTC for the past year, and thats why Im not getting pregnant. She told me that after the first month that she didnt concieve and she started stressing out she just told herself to relax and then it happened!!!! So, apparently girls, thats what we need to do. Can you believe this??? AFTER 2 MONTHS????? She has the gall to say that to me, who has been trying for over a year and 2 failed pregnancies!!!

I swear, I just feel like isolating myself from pregnant women at the moment. I cant handle their happiness and their smug satisfaction in their fertility. And I know I sound completely irrational and nasty but I just cant help the way I feel and I know you girls understand.

LizJessie, how are you feeling now? Still feel like AF is on the way?

H xx