oh congrats mumstar!!

thanks everyone for your messages - especially zionsmom.. we've both been through a lot this year; i know your bfp will be here soon.

i didnt temp during the tww this time and had heaps of other things on my mind so didn't obsess over "signs" for once. must have done me good. all things being OK, i'll be 7 weeks when I get home so will ask for a scan. it's easy not telling people (apart from this forum of course) since i'm not seeing anyone over here.

4 bfp this month here, wow!! here's to even more