satya you are such a strong person for breaking sharing what has been going on; I really really hope things work out the best for you and your dreams. Look at Halle Berry, she was married twice and is now pregnant at 41 to her partner
pash I may have missed this but did you find out for sure if it was a molar pregnancy? An MRI would freak me out too... just seeing them on TV is creepy enough for me. Glad it's over for you now, what's the next step?
treelo Congrats on your anniversary! It will be our 7th later this year, time flies eh?? Glad the party went well, sounds like a lot of fun
kbowman I just checked your chart, looks good!! Hope this is your month!! It's been a while since we had a run of BFP. Please start off another one
Hi everyone else... so much to catch up on and this week has been so mega busy for me at work. We have booked a big trip overseas in Nov/Dec... I was initially not wanting to make any decisions until I knew if I was pg or not but I can't spend my whole life in limbo waiting so I will cross that bridge if/when i come to it. Plus I don't want to sit and home and think about the fact that this was supposed to be the start of my maternity leave.
Satya: Good for you it's not easy making this decision.....we are here if you need to chat,also what about a Donor? my sister has had children via a donor it's not that uncommon.
Pash: I think people think I am stronger than I am because I don't show what I am feeling.....I must admit when the last visitor left on Monday apart from the Relief.....I started to feel quite Down and then the overwhelming urge to run away hit me hence I am going to Cairns next week to try "White Water Rafting" because I have always wanted to......can't say I feel terribly rational at the moment? hahaha hey but I'll switch off for a couple of days at least
Hi to everyone else Goodluck at whatever stages in your cycles you are at!!!
Dawnee, way to go with white water rafting!! Everyone I've ever heard talk about it has just loved the experience. Have fun in Cairns.
Yes, love the new avatar, Treelo! Gorgeous!
Thanks, Kiwigirl and LizJessie. My chart would be far more promising if I'd managed to get a Date Night bd in before O instead of the day after Always next month, hey.
Kiwigirl, that o/s holiday sounds fabulous!! I wanna overseas holiday toooooo. And I don't even want to think what I'm going to be like if I'm not pg by what should have been my November EDD. Begging for BB comfort hugs, no doubt.
Liz, I'd be trying an OPK right now to see whether that comes up with a second line. Worth a peek. And a HPT in a couple of days. Good luck, sweetie!!!
*Hugs* Pash. Sounds like a scary experience. Hope you'll be able to kickstart the TTC journey again soon. When do you get the results from the MRI?
Satya, don't give up hope about having a baby. Once you get your current situation sorted then you can start looking properly at all your options.
*twiddles thumbs* I'm on the TWW for AF and time is dragging. Hope next cycle is more exciting!
kbowman - Unfortunately I don't have any OPKs (actually I do, but they fell down behind the dresser and the TV and DVD are resting on top of that and they're all too heavy to move on my own) but I will be doing a HPT on Monday if AF hasn't arrived
Satya - I am so sorry to hear about you and your DF But it sounds like you are doing what is best for you and good on you for being brave enough to do it. You are right - you do deserve better. Take it easy on yourself, and as everyone else has said, don't give up on your hopes of having a child - you never know what might be around the corner!
Dawnee - I am so sorry for your loss Take care of yourself and enjoy the rafting!
Hi to everyone else and here's to heaps of BFPs happening really soon!!
Hi everyone sorry for the lack of personals but it's been a hard day.
Pash - the MRI didn't sound very nice at all. Did they offer you a sedative? They should've.
My ex MIL just left my house. She has emptied my ex's daughter's room out. It looks so bare. It makes me feel so sad. I have stuff all over my house at the moment, stuff to throw out, stuff to give to the opshop, heaps of his stuff still here.
I keep finding cards and notes from him everywhere. He used to be such a romantic and he'd leave them for me all the time. It's killing me finding them.
He's demanding money from me and he broke my mobile so I'll have to replace it as it keeps turning off.
I now know without doubt that he has a girlfriend. She was seen by a joint friend last Thursday night driving my car. Yes you have that correct MY car. I just want to rip his head off, it's a very nice car and I only allowed him to drive it....no one else. The friend asked why there was a strange woman in my car and he was told that we'd split up several weeks ago and he was now seeing her. He didn't want to interfere and just believed him so when he heard today that we only broke up on the weekend he rang me and told me what had happened. The friend never realised the car was mine, he thought it was his so it didn't click until today. He's still denying he's seeing this woman.
I just can't believe that things are ending this way....but they are. I just want everything gone from the house so I can never have to see him ever again.
I just joined since I really need some support- not many people understand the fears of being pregnant again after losing babies!
I have had 3 miscs, and now finally have plucked up the courage to try again!
Went to a specialist Obstetrician and had all the tests done, he discovered a septum in my uterus, and I had a laparoscopy and hysteroscopy and now am finally trying. Started Clomid 5mg today!
To say I am terrified of being pregnant again is an understatement, since I have this fear of something going wrong again!
But " deep breath", I have to get over it! Hope to hear from the ladies here!
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I has to be time for someone to have some BFP's. It should be US!
Satya- Sometimes you can't even believe the situations we get into. At 23 I was dating a 40 year old man who was cheating on me with a younger woman. Now I can just laugh I guess I wasn't young enough. At the time difficult experiences are awful. I hope one day you can look back on this and shake your head and laugh.
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Always next month, hey.
But it sounds like you are doing what is best for you and good on you for being brave enough to do it. You are right - you do deserve better. Take it easy on yourself, and as everyone else has said, don't give up on your hopes of having a child - you never know what might be around the corner!
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