Jayney - i think we are cycle buddies... ithink i am on day 19 as well!

LizJessie - maybe good news 4 u? FIngers crossed hun!

Penny - i know how us feel about OPK's. I tried them once and i have a really crap time interpreting all the different shades of lines. I decided they weren't for me and decided to go by my temps and CM. But i applaud anyone who works out how to use them properly!

Zionsmum - woo hoo... nearly time for you to test!

Treelo - sorry your man is being such a doofus. Here's hoping he was just having male PMT and will be in a better mood soon.

Mammal - go the Vitex. I love the stuff. It has helped regulate my cycle so i now ovulate on Day 14 when it used to be Day 19 or thereabouts. Good luck with it.

Beaksie - have fun in Exmouth. How lovely to be able to have a little getaway! Thant's what i really need i reckon.

Kiwigirl - glad no one is harrasssing you abour are you pg or not. I hate it when people ask me that. One girl at work kept on looknig at my stomach and saying "are you sure you haven't got something to tell me?" (she has five kids under age five, so has mo idea what m/c feelws like) and i said to her "well, i've actually just m/c'd. and i would appreciate it if you don't assume things, thanks!". That put her in her place! She has kept well away from me and looks rather embarrassed everytime i see her.

MissBelinda - good luck with Fertility First and your possible career change!

KBowman - so sorry AF came hun (and you are definitely not invisible!).

Satya - how u holding up sweetie? Big hugs.

HI and big hugs to everyone else.

As for me, waiting in the TWW... we gave things a good go (on numerous occasions!) this month, so i am hoping it is going to be a BFP... but knowing my luck it will be a BFN (as usual ... sigh), so i am not getting too optimistic. But we BD'd on day 11, 12, 13 and 14, and FF says i O'd on Day 14, so i am happy we at least BD'd at all the right times. I also drank heaps of water and decaf green tea and a bit of Robitussin every day (cough mix which thins out CM and makes it friendlier for sperm!) and my CM was great this month. SO at least i know we did everything we could this month, so it is up to Nature now, i guess. Trying not to think about it now and am not going to test unless AF is insanely late!

Have a good arvo everyone.