DD -- I also had bleeding (plenty of spotting and 4 substantial bleeds) from week 5 to 15 or so. It was a combination of early low-lying placenta and a small hematoma for some of the bleeds, no explanation for others. The pregnancy was perfect after that, though, and you know how it ended, so try to think the best thoughts.
Typing with one hand while boob monster has the other -- hang in there, super ladies!
firstly congrats to tildy and alm on the arrival of their beautiful bubs.
results are in and it is a BFN but i actually was alright this month, i just keep thinking that it is going to happen and how exciting it will be when it does. Also thank-you for everyones helpful comments on dh family i have finally said something to them not sure if it will make a difference but have not heard to much back after the weekend pretty much i explained to them that i also lost my daughter that i had been carrying for 29weeks and that i had felt kick and move around and that i felt that they were not being supportive of how i felt or the next step that me and dh had decided as a couple to make together. i think it is important that they understand that i don't make these decisions by myself that we make them together. I think because dh mother moved to england when he was 13 and left him behind and only came back 2 years ago she feels she needs to make up on the mothering time iykwim. anyhow best be off and do some shopping just finished work and have been doing office reno all weekend except sunday when dh and i went redclawing yummo think that is what will be for dinner.
Oh and teagz hope you are feeling better you poor thing sending you pleanty of healthy vibes.
AND dd hope everything is going well after your little scare if i learnt one thing when everything happened with chloe think of yourself and don't worry about what others think you and the bubby are the most important things at the moment.
Dee, I'm sorry for the BFN hun, but hang in there as I know that when IT does happen we'll all be over the moon for you and we'll always behind you 100%. Do you have any more embies left for transfers? Big hugs sweetie
Teagz, I'm so happy little Jayvan's ashes were saved!!!! That was very close! I'm glad your DF was so quick in his thinking.
How many days to go for us hun???? Keeping my fingers and toes crossed for you for a BFP during your lovely holiday
Nae, good luck with your OB appointment this week. I hope all is looking great. And don't feel like you should be staying away hun, I love to hear your progress and I know your pg dust is all going to rub off on us TTC eventually!!
Diana, hope you're taking it easy hun, enjoy the break from your crazy work hours!
Sue, I hope all goes well for you in 3 weeks, how very exciting hun!!
Cheryl, I hope your cold is getting better slowly and you're back to your healthy self soon, sending you lots of healing energy.
Jo ans Tildy, I hope you're both enjoying babymoon ATM. How very proud I am of you both !!
Megan and Lan, let some magic baby dust and sticky vibes fall on you in bucket loads in the next cycle
Theresa, Laney & Jas, I hope you are all going OK and bubs are doing well .
AFM, not much to report. We are still painting and hoping to finish it by next weekend. Have been getting a sore throat in the mornings but then it disappears so I hope I don't catch the nasty cold .
Big hugs to everyone and hello to anyone I missed!
Beata, 40 days & 30 Days til my holiday! And yes, little terrors those children are when they don't have enough sleep. My heart was in my throat!
Dee, I'm sorry you got a BFN. Sending you baby dust for your next cycle. It WILL happen! And thanks for the healthy vibes! They worked a treat, I feel my normal self again!
Tildy, you clever little thing! Typing to us with one hand! Hope you's are settling in!
Sue, thanks so much for your thoughts I have had a few cries over the last couple of days Mostly because we have a few parties and things around that time, and a few of my friends that are pregnant will be there (of whom I've been avoiding like the plague.. I know, I'm aweful) and I'm not overly excited about it. But, as DF said last night, I can't avoid pregnant people forever, and I can't not be happy for them because of my own bad luck, so I'm pulling my chin up. My baby will come to me when they're ready to, and when they do it will be our special little earth baby
AFM. I FOUND MY WEDDING DRESS! They have to order in my size (And it comes in US sizes, so I'm a size 10 woo! :P) but when I get it (and when I'm allowed to take photos - they don't let you take photos til you pay some dosh, incase you get it made) I'll post it up. When I explain it to people I get a eewwww-are-you-really-going-to-wear-that-screwed-up-face look so I don't think I'll do it any justice if I try now. But, it's just gorgeous.
Found a celebrant as well, she sounds lovely. She suggested a few ideas for the ceremony, one being The Warming of the Rings. As she is doing the vows she passes our rings around in a little velvet pouch, starting with my mum, to all the guests who put good luck wishes on them, then they go back to DF's mum and she passes them to us. I thought it was really sweet, and something I have never heard of before.
ETA, just wanted to share some exciting news with you all. The man that causes alot of troubles for us in our office resigned today. And I may be in the running for his position. Which means a company car and possible payrise. Wish me luck!!
Dee, I tried to post several times last night, but BB kept crashing. I am so sorry that you got a BFN hun, but am glad that you are feel optomistic about the future, you are right, it WILL happen for you. I'm also glad that you spoke to your DH's family about how you are feeling, good for you. Take care.
Beata we have 2 embies left and then we are having 6 months break before doing a new cycle just so i can have my body back for a bit if we need to go their.
Teagz thanks for the message, how exciting about the wedding dress i can't wait to see it. I fell in love with the first dress i tried on and i love our photos.
Berry thank you, you are such a sweet person and yes i have to say i feel quite proud to actually speak out about how i feel to dh family and i think it has made me and dh a lot more easy with each other cause he no longer feels like he is stuck in the middle.
My parents arrive on saturday for a couple of days and i can't wait i'm like a little kid at christmas i haven't seen them since christmas and this is the longest that i have gone between visits and it is the first time that they will see chloe's cupboard so it will be extra special.
okay i'm rambling now will chat later and all take care for the end of the week.
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and hello to anyone I missed!
I have had a few cries over the last couple of days
Mostly because we have a few parties and things around that time, and a few of my friends that are pregnant will be there (of whom I've been avoiding like the plague.. I know, I'm aweful) and I'm not overly excited about it. But, as DF said last night, I can't avoid pregnant people forever, and I can't not be happy for them because of my own bad luck, so I'm pulling my chin up. My baby will come to me when they're ready to, and when they do it will be our special little earth baby
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