Lan - sorry to disappoint but no labour yet! DH had to study all day yesterday so I had limited access to the laptop. It sounds like you are settling into your new home and it is nice that you have made a place for Hamish as well. I had only bought a couple of items for Nathaniel, one sits in his memorial box as it was the first outfit I bought and the others are going to be used by this bub. It is nice to know they are going to get used. Good luck with your TTC and don't tire yourself out too much - you need your energy!

Rozzie - good luck with your scan today. I can't wait to hear the good news. I know it will be nerve wracking but try to focus on the wondeful feeling when you see your baby's heartbeat.

I have had to laugh about all you admitting the lack of action - I am exactly the same and for exactly the same reasons. DH and I agreed early on that we would rather go basically without than worry ourselves if I was to have a bleed. I think it is pretty normal that we have all made this decision considering the heartbreak we have all experienced. I think the only people who would think we are all crazy are those who haven't been where we have. I know that it is all safe etc, but it is as much about state of mind. It shows we have very understanding partners!

Ok must rush, so hi to everyone else not ignoring you but have to rush off to an Ob appointment. I hope you are all well and belly rubs and baby dust to everyone.