thread: TTC AFTER Late Loss/Recurrent Miscarriage/ Stillbirth Sept 2009

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  1. #1
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    Jul 2006
    Canberra
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    Hi ladies

    Bec - best of luck with your scan next week. Wow, 12 weeks already! And well done on your Masters. It must be a great feeling to know you will have that out of the way to concentrate on your bub.

    BF - hope you're doing ok and getting the support you need. How did your psych appointment go? I hope you have found someone you can talk to and feel comfortable with. I wouldn't say I am back to normal, but the psych did help me to return to normal life if that makes any sense.

    Samcougar - not long now til testing. I hope you get your BFP this cycle

    Beata -thanks for dropping by and giving us your support. Hope you're doing well.

    to everyone else!

    AFM, we did have a kind of relaxing day on Sunday watching some movies, none of which were very uplifting And I had to keep getting up to do the washing/drying. AF still hasn't arrived. Yesterday and today I find I am very bloated in the afternoon, and I am so very tired. I would like to think that the POAS I did last week was faulty so I might try again tomorrow morning if AF doesn't arrive. I really hope that I don't have another cycle that goes past 100 days. That would do my head in!

    Anyway, take care all and sending lots of to everyone - we need another BFP in here!

    oxo

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    Apr 2009
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    Gosh it's quiet in here.... (Yawn) lol

    No AF yet....

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    Jul 2008
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    Yes is quiet.. Well, if my positive result for OPK was accurate this should mean AF is due in about 3 or 4 days.. I have had to hold myself back twice from buying the First response HPT.. The one that says it can detect a positive result 5 days before your period is due.. Grr.. I so want to test, but I so don't in case it's negative!! It's driving me nuts lol.. I am going to NSW to visit my family on Wed til Sunday, so I figure if AF still hasn't arrived when I get back I should test then!! At least when AF is here I don't drive myself crazy thinking i could be pregnant!! I was speaking to Mum and she suggested going to the pub for dinner and drinks when I am there and I had to remind her I am not drinking.. "There could be cells dividing as we speak" I told her!! Yes I a bit mad

    Hope everyone else is going ok.. & for us all

  4. #4
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    Dec 2008
    Melbourne, VIC
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    Hi Girls,

    Gosh it is quiet in here!

    Samcougar, oh my gosh, I hope AF stays away for you for a long, long time!! Keeping my fingers and toes crossed for you, when will you test??? Or are you not resting? Very excited hun!

    Cheryl, has AF arrived? well if it's dragging it's feet we will excuse it if it's planning to stay away for a few months! Thinking of you hun, take it easy.

    Blessedatlast, I had a good giggle reading about the possibility of cells dividing at the pub! lol. Your poor mum, she was probably trying to make you feel better I so hope AF stays away for you too sweetie, how awesome would it be to get a few BFPs in here at the same time! Have a great time visiting your family

    ButterflyForever, hope you're going OK hun, they say being positive and optomistic is a very powerful tool, but I also know it's hard to do sometimes. Wishing and hoping for you, your TCC journey is a very short one!

    Girls, I'm spreading as much & as I can muster. I wish, hope and PRAY you'll all get your BFPs very very soon

    B xxx

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    Sep 2009
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    hi all,

    Been offline as virus on computer, had to format it twice, still not sure its cured, so I may drop off the radar again.

    Blessedatlast - really hoping for you hun.

    Hope everyone else is well,

    afm - 10dpo on a 26 day cycle at cd21 at the mo. Got no real symptoms, a few cramps and a mega bloated gut (and it's not too many Macca's), probably af round the corner.
    Feeling guilty at the moment, so exhausted with the grieving, feel like I've stepped back and am giving it the backseat now, am I concentrating too much on the ttc.
    Was so wrapped up in the grief at one point, now I get a stab of pain whenever anybody mentions my daughter.
    It's such a hard and lonely road,

    Take care all,

  6. #6
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    Dec 2008
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    ButterflyForever, grief is very much like that, all consuming, exhausting and sometimes it seems like it will never end. I felt that guilt too, not wanting to disrespect Joshua by wanting another baby so soon after I lost him. It is hard, but if you're finding it really difficult, perhaps wait a bit longer with TTC hun. You will feel heaps better when you are actually ready to take that step (not that that step is easy to take! it took months of therapy for me to take it).
    Thinking of you hun

    B xxx

  7. #7
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    Nov 2008
    Victoria
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    Hi lovely ladies

    I hope you are all well. Have been lurking but not posting for awhile. Just been sorting things out, back to the FS last week who has asked me to go for a x-ray of my fallopian tubes and then will start clomid again. Happy to have a plan but am sick of waiting!

    Just a quick one for now.

    Take care
    xo