Powelly - addressing your last para about not feeling right. Speaking for myself when I was not PG but in the TTC phase, all of these thoughts about not just getting PG but what it would be like when I was and how I would feel and cope were also going around in my head. So for me reading a snippet of the emotional rollercoaster that is PG after such late losses helped me to understand that my feelings were normal when we decided to TTC again.

Hope that makes sense. Essentially what I'm trying to say is that hearing from ladies that were PG was helpful to me. So I can't imagine someone telling you to shove off :-)