Hi Barbara. Thanks for the advice. I have had my DH, mother and 2 sisters all tell me that they think I need to change Obs. It is not because he has been incompetent or anything - in fact I like him a lot, but rather that I will need someone who will see me a lot (they all had 16 week appointments and can't understand why I didn't). I have my follow up with him in January - so have a lot of questions etc.

Do you know if they did any blood tests on you as well as Anthony? I know that tests are being done on Nathaniel, but as far as I am aware none have been carried out on me? My sister lost 2 babies in her 2nd trimester - and she said that blood tests were done on her after her 1st M/C to test for blood clots etc. I am worried that it will be too late for them to do any tests on me. That is another thing I will need to speak to my Ob about.

Also - why is it that they say to wait for 1 whole cycle? I know there is a chance of infection if you start TTCing too early - but what about after I have stopped bleeding etc - why the long wait? It is more for dating purposes? I am going to have so many questions for my Ob when he returns! Poor guy won't know what hit him.