TTC after Recurrent Miscarriage/Stillbirth or Loss after the 1st trimester ~ OCT 07

[naomij]

Thanks Everyone
StarBright - Thank you for your welcome, I have read your journal and I feel like I am reading my own story! I hope one day I can share more of my journey with you all too. Bit raw at the moment though!!

Mel1977 - I thought it might be you! Congrartulations on your fantastic egg count! No wonder you are sore - I got lots of eggs on my last pick up and I couldnt walk for days either! Be careful you dont hyper-stim and look after yourself. My only suggestion (forward arent I??) is that after you have your transfer tomorrow you go home and rest - try laying down with your legs up and think nice positive "sticky" thoughts! And remember, with all those eggs which WILL fertilise into healthy little embies, you could end up with a whole footy team and never have to give yourself injections again!

Klee - A lot of people tell me how strong i seem but I guarantee that its all a front! I cried the whole way home on Tues night and then all day Wednesday as well. I understand now that you have good news - congratulations!! I'm glad I sat next to you, maybe your fertile vibes will rub off on me?

Just to update you and Mel - I called my sister on the way home and used Mels words of "I will definitely be at the Church for the christening but I'm not sure how I will cope for the rest of the day so I will play it by ear because I dont want to ruin the girls day by being upset". Her response - "I dont understand why you would be upset - you'll know everyone there." I hung up on her and the next day she sent me a text saying "I guess I understand why you might be upset so do whatever you need to do". I just can't win!!

Naomi

[Mel1977]

Naomi - Your sister is just hopeless - some people will just never get it and as much as we want them to and try to make them, we just do our own heads in Well I am proud of you for saying what you did, she can do with that what she will but you have done the right thing and been honest. And you stick to your guns, as we were saying the other night it doesnt matter what others think, they go home to their happy lives and you are the one picking up the pieces... and I definitely plan to, I just posted in my IVF thread that I am gonna milk it - DH is running me a bath

Auntie M - Congrats on scan, sorry I didnt say that earlier, but its just wonderful. Hopefully it can make your next few days a little easier.

CeCe - Well done for letting your friend have it, couldnt have said it better myself. And hey, if she doesnt call you again because her nose is so far out of joint I guess she wasnt a friend worth having in the first place.

SB - Congrats on your chicks, and your kittens... I would love to have a kitten around, cat allergies kind of prevent it though Have fun laptop shopping, how fun!

Klee - How is your day going? I am over my little tanty now if you didnt notice LOL

Well going in for transfer tomorrow at 11am. Then coming home to sit on the couch with my feet up, as Naomi suggested (you know I am gonna tell DH to blame you ), for oh well about the next 7 or 8 months... hopefully