TTC after Recurrent Miscarriage/Stillbirth or Loss after the 1st trimester ~ OCT 07

**CeCeSays** · October 25th, 2007, 03:19 AM

:hugs:Mel- I am so so very sorry. I don't have words. :hugs:

**Auntie M** · October 25th, 2007, 03:21 AM

dammit dammit dammit dammit.

i'm so sorry Mel. i wish i had something i could say. it just isn't fair how much you've been through. big hugs to you and dh.

**Auntie M** · October 25th, 2007, 03:38 AM

CeCe- lol re the music pirate - so creative! and a penguin sounds cute as a bug.

Klee- i think i caught your cold. lol

**~StarBright~** · October 25th, 2007, 08:39 AM

Mel- will call u tonite...
Sheree Joy- Yay!!

I am still waiting for internet- was supposed to be running yesterday- but they sent me the wrong modem!! I am trying to be patient and not use the net at work- but after reading the news-i wish i had have been checking.. So sorry mel- big hugs- i will be back later for more personals (havent read through posts- just saw reactions) I will be back soon!!

Love Kat

**klee** · October 25th, 2007, 09:40 AM

mel this is such devastating news, i really don't know what to say, but i am feeling for you. take all the time you need but just know what we are here for you no matter what and when you are ready to come back, take care of yourself and dh, thinking of you guys.

**jlk** · October 25th, 2007, 10:08 AM

Hey all,

well looks like f/s is on hold for a while, we have had some huge bills come in & with xmas coming up DH & I have decided to wait till after the new year to see him cos at the moment we just can't afford it

fingers crossed we can do it on our own before then anyway! (wishfull thinking)

How is everyone?

**~StarBright~** · October 25th, 2007, 12:15 PM

What a combination of happiness and sadness for me to discover this morning. I saw green men (YAY FOR Sheree) and then i saw hugs. Mel- i dont have any words to say coz i know nothing will help- but i am sooooo sad for you! Just remember when you are up for it- you still have some future babies ready and waiting- no more of the injections etc- just need to pop them in when you are ready- next time go for two eggs (like i know you wanted to this time) I still have faith in our plan love- and nothing is set in stone. I can wait!! (i mean that!!!!) F$ck mate- i just dont know what else to say. Big hugs to you.

I will be waiting for another 5-7 working days for the net to be connected. I was all set for it to be done on wed- but they sent the wrong modem and disc- so i have to wait for them to send another one. Teltra are sooo smart- that they arranged for a tech to come and check my phone line then sent me a modem etc for wireless no phone line required internet- (WTF???) which i asked for in the begining but was told i couldnt get it because it didnt exist. So i got the phone line on and now i have to wait. I decided to stick with the phone line one cause the technician said it is quicker and if i go with the wireless it runs off mobile towers and can disconnect easily. But i got a few extra months half price out of them for their stuff up. Bloody idiots. So i will be laying low again this week and it should all be good next week.

We did a dash trip to Sydney on the weekend- left sat morning and got back Monday night. We went to the motor show and the casino. It was fun- but i was a tag along on a boys weekend (my hubby and our house mate) i will be planning the next trip (hopefully in about a month) and i plan to hit sydney for enough time to meet a few people (especially little people like a certain Oliver...) and then heading to Melbourne too. I may be doing it solo- or a bit with DH and a bit on my own if he has to get back for work. I will try to be organised (we are very last minute people which makes it hard on the people we try to organise things with!! LOL) so i can make arrangements to meet up.

I am waiting patiently for my net- until then i will be a bit scarce.
Love to all

Katti xoxo

**naomij** · October 25th, 2007, 02:05 PM

Im sorry I havent been around much either. I have actually written two big long posts but they have both disappeared (maybe someone can let me know whast I did wrong). When I sent the onelast night a message came up saying I would have to wait for a Moderator to approve before it would be sent??

Anyway, just wanted to send big hugs and all my love to you Mel - I know how devastating it is and if there is anything I can do please let me know.

Will try to post again later and hopefully it will come through this time???

Naomi