cece - you are not being selfish in the slightest, thats the day eli was supposed to arrive, not the day her majesty is coming to town. tell her to lose the horns and grow a heart, that day is about remembering eli and if she can't accept that, then she's a sister not worth having.
naomi - hugs to you and ethan for tomorrow, you, your dh and ethan will be in my thoughts and prayers.
mel - thinking of you today on this nicholas' angelversary and for everything else that is going on in your life. look after yourself
kat - hoping af has stayed away, let us know how you are doing.
big hugs to everyone.
me - i feel a bit odd today, like i've eaten too much (which i did last night),