thread: TTC after Recurrent Miscarriage/Stillbirth or Loss after the first trimester #3

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  1. #1
    Heybacko Guest

    Thinking of you all today, Tommy's 5th mth birthday
    xxx

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    Registered User

    Feb 2007
    Sydney, NSW
    155

    hello everyone

    just a quick one before MIL returns from the shops. She has been good actually (Bailey) but will still be good to have my own space tomorrow.

    Thanks for the b'day wishes - Luckily i remembered what day it was as i never look at the calendar anymore. i woke up at 2.00am this morning thinking wow our little son would have been 5 months now - time has flown - but i wonder what he would have been doing if he was here with us.

    Flowerchild - i quickly saw your post last night as i was thinking of you all day wondering how you went - and of course i was very confident that Col would be beating away. Congratulations - another milestone for you - it is great to hear that all went well ! And yes, "pull your head in" at the same time...LOL

    Bailey - i thought you would have told your mum first straight away actually. I think she will be over the moon for you i really do and she will be there with you all the way !

    Lynn - hope you are doing better today - chin up sweety - all will be good for you. Thinking of you.

    Spring - thanks for NOT forgetting me. LOL Hope you are getting spoilt by your sis in Brissy -sounds like it.

    My MIL keeps saying "oh you won't be able to hide that belly for much longer" to which i reply "this is still Tommy's belly not the new pregnancy" so people won't really know what to say and if they should say it. She says "oh no i don't think so" - i mean really, we have only seen each other 3 times this year so i don't think she knows how my body is changing (if is is).

    Hello to everyone - hope you are doing well and having a nice weekend (it is glorious here in Sydney)

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Dec 2006
    Sydney
    459

    Hey Tommy,
    I hope you are having a good day up there with all your friends and make sure you are looking after your mummy, daddy big sis and little bro/sis down here. We miss you and we are thinking of you today.

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Oct 2006
    home sweet home.
    1,995

    Happy 5th Month Birthday Tommy sweetheart. Your are only a few months away from being a big brother. Your Mummy and Daddy and Lil sis miss you so much, but we know that you are always with them. :hugs: to you and the family Tommysmum

    Well I will just do a selfish post today and do personals when I am back in Sydney tomorrow. Today was the First Birthday party and I won't lie, it was tough, I only lost it about 3 times. It was hard to see my closest two friends with their babies when I know Harry should have been here too. I ate myself stupid so now my tummy is gurgling like crazy. I am proud that I got through it but I feel totally exhausted. I think 3 nights away from home at the moment is a bit of a stretch. Just need my space IYKWIM.

    Anyway, home tomorrow and then only 13 sleeps until DH is home so I in the scheme of things it is only a spec in time.

    Hope all is well,

    Take care
    Lv Spring

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Dec 2006
    Sydney
    459

    Hey Spring, It must have been hard at the party. I know those stupid "should have's" They get me too. I had it at christmas sitting there with all the kids and my huge family, than had it when I was away and my friend had her 6 moth old. I kept thinking to myself that's what Asha would be doing etc. Well, you have done it now and it can only make you stronger right! And hubby will be home soon, and then followed shortly after by Lil Spring. Enjoy your last night in Brissy.