Ok.. so I normally lurk and read all your posts mainly because I don't feel like I have much to add. You have all helped me make it through some of the worst days I have ever had. I know it sounds trite but I pray for each of you and am truly thankful for your honesty.

That being said... I think I actually can add something worthwile to this thread.. yay me!

Mel- I was totally convinced that the aca test would confirm why I lost Eli. It came back negative... I was crushed. Seemed silly but I just wanted to know why. When I met with my new OB/GYN she explained to me that there are tests for thrombophillias, yes, but they only cover about 15% of the clotting disorders that can cause late loss. She is convinced , the perinatologist and hematologist as well, that a clotting disorder is the reason... lab results be damned. I will be on lovenox for any subsequent pregnancy. ... Sorry I am babbling on here... but I just want you to know that many many docs now accept that clotting disorders have been causing so many losses that they can no longer just chalk it up to "one of those things". Trust your gut. ( I later found out that there was extensive clotting in the placenta and cord)

I dont know how to get those ticker thingies... but we have been given the go ahead for ttc... so expect me to be showing up more. I apologise ahead of time for any craziness that ttc will bring me.

Blessings to everyone!