Jen, I love those stories...it's the giving up I struggle with...the longing for a baby is so overwhelming some days...I was holding my neighbours 14 week old the other day and my tummy physically ached...but this mole thing has given me a new perspective...along with it being removed on the 3rd anniversary of my ruptured ectopic that nearly killed me...I am lucky to be here with my DH and my beautiful furkids...maybe I should be focusing on what I have rather than what I don't? Life can end in a moment...and you never know when that moment is?