Lynn: I wish I could reach through this computer and give you a big hug. You have every right to be upset, mad, sad, whatever you are felling. We were talking today about how people who take risks like drinking alcohol, go and have perfectly healthy babies and there is nothing I can say or do it make it seem ok or fair. It is unfair. I know you wouldn't wish this pain on anyone, but it is hard not to feel ripped off when you took every precaution possible an life still was so cruel. I don't know if I have helped much but more than anything I just wanted to reassure you that it is ok to feel how you feel. You are a wonderful person, a wonderful mother and the most amazing friend. :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

Luv Spring