thread: TTC after Stillbirth/ Recurrent Miscarriage or Loss after 1st Trimester June 07 #2

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    Hi Girls,

    Aunty M - I am so glad you had a couple of "better" days, you will definitely still have those horrid days but take each "better" day that you can, I am sure they will become more frequent as time goes by. And that is great that you and DH had a nice supper together with just the 2 of you, as long as you guys look after each other you will be ok.

    Avalanche - People still surprise me to this day, after 9 months of dealing with insensitive and emotionally crippled people they still do. For people to just walk up to you in the street and ask if you are that girl - how rude!!!!!

    Milly - I am sorry I know I shouldnt but I had to chuckle a little at your post, I know how it is to have everyone watching you like you are gonna fall apart any second. Its not a funny thing, but it just shows how much people dont understand the grief we all feel. They dont understand that we can have bad days but not be suicidal, and also have good days and not be "over it". All I can say is...

    Bailey - Hope your M/S isnt too bad today. Too funny, I scared myself with those YouTube vids the other night that I couldnt sleep - what a psycho am I?

    Spring - Glad to hear lil Spring is doing so well, but bummer about the BT! And your welcome

    Lynn - S&K meeting was ok, it was much easier going this time that last cause I didnt feel nervous. Wish Klee was there too but I guess its a long way to travel for a meeting Hope you are feeling ok, and that Hope is looking after his/her Mumma.

    Tess - OMG I cant believe people can be so heartless, who the hell says to someone you dont seem very sad?!?!?!?!? (not to mention the other comments). Talk about learn some communication skills buddy! I am so sorry you have to suffer those ignorant people.

    Huge HI to everyone else - Deb, have you heard from Michelle? And about how Oscar is doing? I hope she puts a pic on her ticker like heaps of other women do.

    Well DH and I decided we are getting a kitten! How is that for an out of the blew statement? LOL! Unfortunately I have cat allergies but apparently they will subside once I get used to living with a cat again - at least I hope so. We are going to move to a bigger house in the next month or 2 though so we will wait until then. I cant wait - I love cats so much (darn allergies ). We saw a little kitten in a pet shop window tonight and both decided (well I persuaded and DH agreed, but it was still mutual LOL).

    I just wanted to say something that is probably a little (or alot) corny and stupid but I am gonna say it anyway... I have noticed quite a few ladies have sadly had to join our little (growing) group lately and I know that every time I read a new post about someone losing their much loved bubba I get so teary, call me a sook but I do. But afterwards, to read their posts in the TTC thread about how they feel a little "better" (man I hate that word) now they have found the support that alot of us have been lucky enough to receive from each other gives me so much hope that together one day we will all be "ok". I have been thinking that we are so lucky to have each others support, and I know I feel so proud of us all that we can open up to each other and reach out to both give and receive that support. It makes me wonder how many other women out there going through what we are, are feeling alone and misunderstood - the way each and every one of us felt before we found each other. I am sorry now I am reeeeeeeally being a sook, I am just feeling very emotional today but basically what I am trying to say is that we are all wonderful people - I know I am being pathetic but oh well

    Anyway thats all from me - now that I have embarrassed myself - Ah well!

    Love Mel
    Last edited by Mel1977; June 14th, 2007 at 10:20 PM.