thread: TTC after Stillbirth/ Recurrent Miscarriage or Loss after the First Trimester May 07

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  1. #1

    Oct 2005
    A Nestle Free Zone... What about YOU?
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    You will find the previous thread HERE

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    Dec 2006
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    Mel - that is excellent that your appointment went so well. I hope so much that you get a bfp this month and then you won't have to go through all the other stuff. But if you don't at least there is a plan now and you will be preggas in no time! It is great to have some positive news isn't it. I hope you are feeling better after meeting with FS. I have everything crossed for you and that this is your month! Good luck tonight with the counsellor. I hope everything goes ok. Thinking of you

    Deb - LOL! I love the names. I am having 3 hcg shots over the next 2 weeks so my last will be next Thursday which is 9dpo. So I'm not sure if this will affect my hpt. I say that I won't use the tests but I am a test junkie and I haven't had my fix for so long now!!!!!! I think I might sneak a couple in

    Alex - happy anniversary. I hope you managed to smile and enjoy your day. I can understand that the news about Madeleine has upset you. It is just so awful and to be so close to home is heartbreaking. My thoughts are with you and her family.

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    Oct 2006
    home sweet home.
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    Hey ladies, it is so great to hear all the good and postive news in here.

    Lynn: Whoo bloody Hoo, I am so excited for you. I know this TWW is going to be tough but I can't wait until you get to the end and get that magical BFP that you so deserve. Now get thee to bed a procreate

    Mel: Your FS sounds wonderful, and it sounds like he is taking your concerns seriously. That must be really validating. Also I am glad that it doesn't seem like DH's are an issue. He must feel so much better knowing that. Another Whoo Bloody Hoo.

    Deb: IKWYM about the tiredness, I still find I am zonked by 5.00pm. I have can't imagine how nervous, excited aprehensive you must be feeling about your scan. Actually come to think of it I can imagine it because for my first 10 or so scans I would get so nervous and worked up that I would almost faint. You will be ok babe and I know that this baby is going to be so H&H and growing into a little person inside you. BTW I love the name Col, it is just gorgeous, I can't wait until you go for your scan and Col has a wonderful strong hb.

    Bailey: Are you going to go and get the BT that Lynn mentioned? I think it sounds like a good idea. It just means that you can tell if you haved O'd because OPK's are very hard to use and can be unreliable if you don't POAS at the correct time to catch the surge.

    Tommysmum: Good luck tomorrow hun. I was a mess when I collected Harry mind you it was the day after the memorial service so I was a mess 24/7. It is hard seeing the urn for the first time, it makes it really real if that makes sense. Now though I find such comfort in talking to him and giving him a kiss every day. As soon as I get home in the afternoon I go and see Harry, give him a kiss and tell him I love him. I do it as soon as I wake up also, I guess it is a ritual that brings me a sense of comfort. I hope you are Ok. Give that little man of yours a kiss from me.

    Klee: Hey babe, good to hear from you. I am sorry that you missed O but don't beat yourself up too much. How sweet is your nephew. To say Happy Phoebe day is just the most special gift a precious little child could give. What an insightful little boy.

    JLK: Has your doctor given you any advice about getting your Iron levels up? I hope it doesn't take too long. Good to hear from you anyway, we missed ya.

    HeybackO: I know what you mean about that poor little girl Maddy, I can't even begin to imagine the evil people who would harm an innocent child. Those poor parents must be only just holding on. I hope so much that she is found safe and well. I hope your anniversary was ok anyway and it is good to hear from you.

    Well I have had a better day today. I got talking to work about my maternity leave and return to work and it looks as though when I do go back I will be able to most if not all of my work from home. Means Lil' Spring and I can be home together for as long as possible. I am feeling better and a little more organised. I know how lucky I am to have such a family friendly employer (well I work for the government so I am lucky in many ways). DH will be home in 24 sleeps and I am so excited about seeing the Sydney girls this weekend that hopefully the next few weeks will fly.

    I agree with Bailey's suggestion, we should get all you interstate (oh and international) girls to come to Sydney and have a slumber party. OMG that just sounds like so much fun. In all honesty though, sometimes you can get flights for crazy cheap prices like $59 and I am more than happy to pitch in to get you all here.

    Oh well, I am going to go and eat some more wheat biscuits (yes, you guessed it, the constipation monster is back) and go to bed.

    Big love to all my sweet friends.

    lv Spring

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    Dec 2006
    Sydney
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    Hi everyone,

    Spring - Look at your ticker - time is just flying by. Easy for me to say huh? Glad to hear that you are feeling better. That is excellent news about your work letting you work from home. Fantastic that you can stay home with your babies.

    Mel - Sounds like you got some good news today. Good to hear that your FS is so understanding. Hopefully you won't need to see him again Let us all know how you went tonight.

    Lynn - Another Woo Hoo for you today. A very long 2ww, but hopefully a happy ending. See you tomorrow.

    Tommysmum - Was good to talk to you today. See you in the morning.

    Hi to everyone.

    Well I am on day 532 of my cycle....well thats how it feels anyway. I have a feeling I may have already ovulated even though the OPK's haven't given me a clear positive. My temps have been just slightly higher the last 3 days and at the moment there is no CM to speak of, so maybe I already have?? I might take up the BT, but I might wait and see if AF arives in the next 10 days. There seems to be so much positive news here lately, I am feeling a little positive too.... that's it, I am jumping on the good-news bandwagon!

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    Registered User

    Oct 2006
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    Hi everybody,

    Spring - So glad your having a better day... how lucky are you with the work at home opportunity! Well I think it is great, you deserve some quality time with lil Spring, and with the second wage you can spoil him/her rotten

    Lynn - Hope you are busy resting and away!

    Bailey - You probably have O'd and it is just not showing, but you have been like a crazy woman so surely you have the best chance of catching the egg! GL - will be sending vibes your way.

    Well it has been a good night, the counsellor from S&K came and she is so lovely. She was so easy to talk to, gave us lots of things to think about and also showed alot of interest in DH and how he is dealing with his grief. I showed her the poem he wrote me for Mother's Day and she is going to publish it in the next newsletter and dedicate it to the Nicholas which he was stoked about. She has given him the idea to start writing down his feelings to get them out. She gave me a couple of things to think about as well. She also gave us some advice on how to help the kids through (the older 2 anyway). She gave me so much information to read through and I really enjoyed just sitting down and talking, she told us about her own situation and I felt like I could relate to her. I have to say S&K are the most caring organisation, they have support for grandparents, family, siblings everyone and it is great. I am going to tell my mum about it. Anyway, I feel really good at the moment and feel like just talking with her and DH so openly was like a weight lifting, and it was nice to hear DH talk about himself for a change.

    Anyway just wanted to report how it all went.

    Bye for now, Me