Hi Sara / Trish,

Thank you both for the kind words. It is nice to know there are others to speak with and of course get advice from.

Unfortunately I too believed 'this was the one'. Until I found out I was pregnant.
My decision to keep my Twins was I believe these 'little bundle of joys' are also a gift that unfortunately not everyone has the chance to experience.
I have a sister and her family who will be here in Sydney for another year - and I have family overseas and some close friends.
Counting this as a 'blessing' allows me to know they'll be hard times but hey I'm not the first or the last person to be in this situation.
Congratulation on your twin pregnancy. Yes you will have hard times, but it will be nothing against the joy these to little ones will give you