Thanks girls what a relief that that your boys were ok its such a nervous time isnt it.This thing was called mcda but im hoping that it was written as a please check thing when we go wed.I am the same ive had no downs tests or anything because we wouldnt have done anything anyway they are still our babies no matter what.
Thanks for the advice on my friend but it is over i think she emailed me a couple of times last night and just cant deal with me taking her dream away(they were her words) and unfortunately i cant help what im having and wont apologise for it we waited and tried too damn hard and ive been so supportive of her for many years so im really hurt that she feels now is the time to vent at me.im sad we might have lost us but she just keeps upsetting me and i have to think of the babies and dont want to keep stressing out.Anyway life throws these things at you sometimes.I appreciate your
help and ill let you know how the scan goes on wed ive got everything crossed.
Take care talk soon.