Hi Julie sorry I can't help my boy /girl twins are 10 1/2 months old and I have always put them in thier beds to go to sleep I have found Jack is now not going to sleep as easely as before but I just let him play till he drops off sometimes he has a little winge but soon goes down. I hope your Theo and Kobe settle for you soon.
I know what you meen about wanting them to go bed sleep at the end of the day just to have some down time for yourself.
Hugs Jean