In the end he basically said that I am irresponsible and will be endangering the life of my baby if I try natural delivery at term.
Ok, take out "at term" and insert "at home" and you have EXACTLY what i was told by various obs, registrars, relatives, even midwives (or medwives as i secretly thought of them after i saw them kowtowing to the ob about another woman "needing" a section for her big baby - he came out 5lbs 10oz!). I'm sorry you don't trust your care providers - is there any way you can change? REALLY think about it - i know just how tough it is to have to face these horribly rigid attitudes and people in pregnancy but you will be totally unable to deal with them in labour and it will be so so hard for you.

I wish you all the best of luck in finding a supportive care provider!

Big hugs hun.

Bx