Hi,

I think you can ask all the questions in the world but you must click with your doula and feel comfortable around her!! I think you will know instantly. A doula can provide you with all the information in the world, but I believe their must be a connection between you and your doula. Also make sure your partner feels 100% comfortable with her. You are going to sharing a special journey together so a mutual connection is always a good start....

Hope this helps!!

Becky.